"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Almost 50% of GOLD DIGGERS are College Students
- Thread starter Urbanyst
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Solomon
Master Don Juan
What do you expect from a keyboard Jockey? lolProbably one of the more pointless threads I've seen for a while. I love it when people quote statistics on the internet.
"Nearly 50% of gold diggers are college students". [Where the other 50% are women of any age].
I mean, next you'll be trying to tell us that grass is green and the sky is blue.
LOL.
That's funny coming from someone who goes to an Internet forum to engage in catty name calling like they are in elementary school. You are one of those dudes with low testosterone and a high voice? You act gay.
Solomon
Master Don Juan
Bro you are the one getting exposed in this thread, you are cornball KBJ who stays getting exposed.
bwahhahahahahahahaha
LOL.
I was wrong to say elementary school. More like pre-school.
Any man who uses the term "KBJ" is talking about himself. You have to spend a lot of time on the Internet to even give a sh*t in the first place lol.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Solomon
Master Don Juan
You clearly don't know me(thank God I don't hang out with KBJ's). I run a social media business so why the fucc wouldn't I be on the internet?
There is no point of me arguing with you....I have proof of game, I have written an ebook, I'm soldified
You are some dude that signed up on sosuave in 2017 and has already amassed 1500 post in less than a year LMFAOOOO
Check my post count for 9 years
so whose on the net longer?
I'm done this guy is a clown, and everyone knows it except for him
People who write eBooks are the biggest "KBJ's" around lol.