almighty flake today

[pyros]

I met this chick on FB cause she's friends with a girl I know.

I messaged her, we chatted, had some laughs...etc. SHE suggested that we should go to dance sometime, so I got her number etc.

The next day I texted her just to ask her how was doing etc, she seemed very receptive, talkative etc, asked me questions, made some jokes etc.

Two days of radio silence...the third day I texted her to ask her out. She agreed, and seemed really excited and happy, so I called her to tell her the details (where, when etc). Again, she seemed very excited about it.

Today, 10 mins before we were suposed to meet, she texted me that she was running late cause she just came back from the beach etc... and asked me if I'd like to hang out with her friends as well (she's 30). I said that I prefered to meet her for a drink as we agreed. Then she went ghost for half an hour on whatsapp. After waiting for twenty minutes I left and went to meet some of my buddies.

She has not even bothered to text me, call me or to give me any lame excuse. THIS IS THE BIGGEST FLAKE BY FAR I'VE HAD SO FAR. This is the rudest girl I've found in my life.

WHAT DA FVCK?

Of course I have not contacted her and I guess I'm deleting her from fb etc tomorrow morning.

Really, WHAT DA FVCK?

 

[Heisenburger]

This is nothing new dude. It's pretty common. Typical behaviour from a girl you just met.

Don't reply or say anything to her. Let her be. If she comes around and contacts you. Don't mention anything about the flake. Carry on as normal. It's maybe a shlt test or not.

The point is you should remain calm and cool. Doing NOTHING is the best response in dealing with this type of behaviour. She knows what she's doing. You are ABOVE this.

Go and meet another girl.

 

[G_Govan]

asked me if I'd like to hang out with her friends as well

You missed the soft rejection.

Enthusiasm is great... when they follow through.

 

[GS750]

See if she contacts you. In the meantime, do nothing. If she does, don't come off as butt-hurt. Just try and set something up. If something similar happens, next her like nobody's business.

 

[captain55]

LOL relax bro. I once had a chick flake on me on the third date after I drove an hour and a half to see her ****ing ass

 

[VladPatton]

What a cûnt lol. Just blow her off, man., and don't let her get under your skin. Rude bîtches gonna be rude.

 

[BrainDamage92]

No you fail to see the problem. You created the flake. She probably made plans with her friends. She wanted you to meet them and you shot her down that was stupid. So when she put her friends and you on the scales the former had more weight. That told her you dont want to be a part of her life, which, no matter what your agenda is, must not show so blatantly.

 

[Trump]

No you fail to see the problem. You created the flake. She probably made plans with her friends. She wanted you to meet them and you shot her down that was stupid. So when she put her friends and you on the scales the former had more weight. That told her you dont want to be a part of her life, which, no matter what your agenda is, must not show so blatantly.

First date meet friends? She also decided to change the agreement 10 min before she was to show up, isn't that a bad impression?

I saw 2 other issues, wouldn't have texted her to "chat" after I got the number, would have just called to set up date, especially with a girl who is 30.

Also wouldn't delete her off Facebook, shows you care what she thinks.

 

[old_skoolr]

Never friend a girl on fb before you've gone out with her.

Thats just basic 101 dude.

 

[pyros]

she could have cancelled it in the morning, she could have given me some lame excuse a few hours before...or she could have met me eventhough she got cold feet, but no, she had to do a super flake 10 minuts before and she did not even bothered to call me or to apologise. She just vanished.

What a crazy b-itch.

I've just had two more flakes in my life and both girls cancelled the date at least one hour before we were suposed to meet which is "basic respect" once you're going to flake.

Really, she did it the worst possible way. Oddly enough she looked quite polite, nice etc on the phone and on her fb profile...weird.

 

[Heisenburger]

she could have cancelled it in the morning, she could have given me some lame excuse a few hours before...or she could have met me eventhough she got cold feet, but no, she had to do a super flake 10 minuts before and she did not even bothered to call me or to apologise. She just vanished.

What a crazy b-itch.

I've just had two more flakes in my life and both girls cancelled the date at least one hour before we were suposed to meet which is "basic respect" once you're going to flake.

Really, she did it the worst possible way. Oddly enough she looked quite polite, nice etc on the phone and on her fb profile...weird.

I wouldnt say she's crazy. She is what she is. Respect is more a man's thing anyway.

You shouldn't be over analyzing her action's or playing out her thoughts. Especially with a girl you haven't met yet. You wouldnt be overthinking why a cute dog hasnt chased the ball you threw it. Let it go. This is more about you than her.

Nothing rings louder in a girl's hamster's ears than silence.

Be patient man. Tease a new girl and this flake will probably look to re-connect....ON YOUR OWN TERMS.

 

[pyros]

after I left, I went to see my buddies as I said above and I met a pretty cute chick, got her number, fb, etc. cause I was kind of furious! LOL

I'm not spending any more thoughts on this b-itch.

Bye all.