"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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allright so new problem

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I am rediciously confident around girls and sh't and have absolutely no problem making moves and initiating kino cuz i've done it many times now. The problem now is I can't get these girls to really like me enough to go out with me. Like I can get them to kinda like me, buts thats it. Then it kinda stalls out and dies. All at the sasme time while I have ug's drooling over me. I don't know where to go.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I am running into the same kinda problem since i recently became single. One thing I think that affects it is if you're anything like me you probably once-up-a-time used AIM as a platform to game.
Dont use AIM to talk to girls you're gaming. I now jsut get #s n facebooks, dont use aim because its so middleschool to talk to a girl n try n attract her on AIM.
feel me?
 
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BBX, you gotta keep sargin through, learn from ur experineces, and disregard rejection
 
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On facebook you're friends with someone. message maybe once a week somethign funny, or post it on their wall.
on aim they can tell when you're on, and b!tches on your nuts be IMing you all the time, annoying.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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