"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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allright so new problem

BBX

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I am rediciously confident around girls and sh't and have absolutely no problem making moves and initiating kino cuz i've done it many times now. The problem now is I can't get these girls to really like me enough to go out with me. Like I can get them to kinda like me, buts thats it. Then it kinda stalls out and dies. All at the sasme time while I have ug's drooling over me. I don't know where to go.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Patrick124

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I am running into the same kinda problem since i recently became single. One thing I think that affects it is if you're anything like me you probably once-up-a-time used AIM as a platform to game.
Dont use AIM to talk to girls you're gaming. I now jsut get #s n facebooks, dont use aim because its so middleschool to talk to a girl n try n attract her on AIM.
feel me?
 

we all eat food

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BBX, you gotta keep sargin through, learn from ur experineces, and disregard rejection
 

Patrick124

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On facebook you're friends with someone. message maybe once a week somethign funny, or post it on their wall.
on aim they can tell when you're on, and b!tches on your nuts be IMing you all the time, annoying.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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