"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Allowed a woman to get under my skin. How to get back

NEPA

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I never have acted jealous in a relationship up until last night. I sweat this girl was reading everything I said to find out the one thing that would make me act like a freak. ****s been fantastic up until last night. Been 50/50 which I'm cool with but I'm not about to start playing this game. Just need some advice since this is something i've never done before. To be totally honest with you I'm still pissed off at myself for allowing it to happen. How do I react to regain some control?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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You will need to be specific for anyone to help you. What exactly happened?
 

NEPA

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Just breaking my balls about an outfit that I thought was a little much. She proceeded to get my extremely pissed and than started laughing at me telling me shes just busting my ass. She did this **** for like 2 hours tho. Stupid thing to get pissed off over but she def suceeded. Now on a personal level I feel like a jerkoff for even getting pissed.
 
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