"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Allow me to introduce myself!

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Hello everybody I'm kocky. This is my first time registering for a forum like this one but im eager to learn from you all. I'm a 21 year old college student, I work part time and Ive always been shy and suffered from being a really "nice guy". A couple of years ago I purchased David deangelos ebook and it opened up my eyes. I was in a relationship at the time and I didn't apply mny of the concepts. Now I'm a little older and a little wiser but i still have a long way to go!

Anywho I just wanted to introduce myself to everybody here, and i hope to learn from you all!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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