You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
No, because its not the actual cvm thats the allergy. Its the proteins in it, which could be from my diet, body chemistry, etc. Its specialized. Or, maybe she IS allergic to all dudes cvm, and is lying to me about it, but I dont see the reason why. Also, it only happens sometimes. I'm pretty sure its just my specific cvm.Desert Fox said:
what? Different proteins in your cvm? Cvm is sperm and seminal fluid. Unless you have something else in there, she's gonna be allergic to all men's cvm. Otherwise get yourself checked out.horaholic said:
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
We already know it is an allergy. If I bang her all weekend and dont cvm in her, she's fine. If I only cvm in her once or twice, she's fine. If I dump five loads in her in a weekend, she sometimes breaks out. Nowadays I only cvm in her when she's raggin, (yes, I know its still possible to get her pregs on the rag, so dont mention that) cuz even though she's medically unable to get pregnant, she has with me before. Now I usually just cvm on her face or tits or ass crack, so its not a big deal. I just wanted to know if anyone else has had this problem.Hughman said:
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
First of all, she's been to the doctor. Second of all, she's my EX. Which means I go through short periods of fvcking her every year or so, so its not a big deal, and isnt worth investing a bunch of time and money into. And frankly, I dont really give too much of a fvck if she gets itchy once in a while. Im looking for an easy solution, instead of wearing a condom with her. I was simply asking if anyone here has ever dealt with this, and apparently not, so theres no need to keep this thread alive any longer.Evzone said:
Could it be that your wearing the b!tch outhoraholic said:
10x in a weekend is a lot of fvckin'....skin downthere is sencative.