"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Allen, please remove my advice posts from the DJ Bible

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Wyldfire

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Originally posted by MetalFortress
Lately, all you've done is WHINE AND WHINE SOME MORE.
No, I have made valid complaints. It's not my fault that some of the moderators are unable to deal with criticism as adults and feel compelled to argue and insult whenever someone complains about their behavior.
 

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Originally posted by Wyldfire
No, I have made valid complaints. It's not my fault that some of the moderators are unable to deal with criticism as adults and feel compelled to argue and insult whenever someone complains about their behavior.
:D

Yet another catch 22, you're good at these aren't you.
 

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OK since this thread is NOT going away, I'm going to continue to poke at it. (seriously for once)...

Wyldfire.

You say you do not want to be "associated with" this site, yet you CONTINUE to post here and complain about the site, starting a staggering number of threads this week alone.

You say you do not want the forum to become "stagnant", yet you are clogging it up with nonsense about the mods, which is only taking away from the real purpose of the site (whatever that is ;)). You're not helping the site by continuing your crusade (regardless of whether you were originally justified).

You say that you don't want the whole site punished for the behavior of a few, yet you want your posts removed from the Bible... which would only punish the members who NEED that information, just to spite two or three mods who pissed you off.

And lastly, but most importantly... you say you "vehemently oppose censorship" yet you want to censor the mods from being 'insulting' (even when they are *usually* just responding to insults such as 'nazi'). Isn't that censorship??

Don't you think you're being a *tad bit* hypocritical? I think if you just stop fighting this issue, you'd notice that it WOULD get better. But continuing to whine about it, obviously ISN'T working. If you truly DO believe that the mods are evil, vindictive, egotistical, fascists... what on earth makes you think that THIS is the type of approach that would change them?

Ok. That's it. I've said my piece.

Now let's get back to the 'cybering'. Who wants me to sit on their lap!? :p
 

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Originally posted by Sexy_Malibu
Ok. That's it. I've said my piece.
This is some of the best advice I've heard in a great while.


Its a dead shame its not gonna do any good.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by Vincent
This is some of the best advice I've heard in a great while.


Its a dead shame its not gonna do any good.
Oh I know. But why should Wyldfire be the only one who gets to rant and rave to no success? :D
 

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Originally posted by Sexy_Malibu
Oh I know. But why should Wyldfire be the only one who gets to rant and rave to no success? :D
yeah, what would be the fun in that.
 

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Originally posted by Vincent
:D

Yet another catch 22, you're good at these aren't you.
Yep...
 

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Originally posted by Wyldfire
No, I have made valid complaints. It's not my fault that some of the moderators are unable to deal with criticism as adults and feel compelled to argue and insult whenever someone complains about their behavior.
So just because they all disagree with you means they are unable to deal with criticism?
 

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Originally posted by Sexy_Malibu
OK since this thread is NOT going away, I'm going to continue to poke at it. (seriously for once)...

Wyldfire.

You say you do not want to be "associated with" this site, yet you CONTINUE to post here and complain about the site, starting a staggering number of threads this week alone.

You say you do not want the forum to become "stagnant", yet you are clogging it up with nonsense about the mods, which is only taking away from the real purpose of the site (whatever that is ;)). You're not helping the site by continuing your crusade (regardless of whether you were originally justified).

You say that you don't want the whole site punished for the behavior of a few, yet you want your posts removed from the Bible... which would only punish the members who NEED that information, just to spite two or three mods who pissed you off.

And lastly, but most importantly... you say you "vehemently oppose censorship" yet you want to censor the mods from being 'insulting' (even when they are *usually* just responding to insults such as 'nazi'). Isn't that censorship??

Don't you think you're being a *tad bit* hypocritical? I think if you just stop fighting this issue, you'd notice that it WOULD get better. But continuing to whine about it, obviously ISN'T working. If you truly DO believe that the mods are evil, vindictive, egotistical, fascists... what on earth makes you think that THIS is the type of approach that would change them?

Ok. That's it. I've said my piece.

Now let's get back to the 'cybering'. Who wants me to sit on their lap!? :p
If you had of been paying attention you would have seen where I said that it is not my wish to have my Bible posts deleted.

Why am I still arguing? Easy...

When a puppy keeps sh*tting on the floor you keep at it until you've got 'em broken. This is the same thing.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by Vincent
This is some of the best advice I've heard in a great while.


Its a dead shame its not gonna do any good.
That's because the puppies are still sh*tting on the floor...when they stop sh*tting I'll put the newspaper down.
 

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Originally posted by MetalFortress
So just because they all disagree with you means they are unable to deal with criticism?
Since when does two equal all?

There are only two moderators who are actually arguing. A couple others have posted but aren't really arguing.
 

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Originally posted by Wyldfire
That's because the puppies are still sh*tting on the floor...when they stop sh*tting I'll put the newspaper down.
Or maybe its like my old dog, who doesn't know whats what and she just sh*ts everywhere.
 

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Originally posted by Wyldfire
If you had of been paying attention you would have seen where I said that it is not my wish to have my Bible posts deleted.

Why am I still arguing? Easy...

When a puppy keeps sh*tting on the floor you keep at it until you've got 'em broken. This is the same thing.
Well you may say it's not your wish to have the posts deleted from the Bible, but the TITLE of this thread is asking to have your posts deleted from the Bible. But I apologize, that was not an example of you being a hypocrite. It was an example of you changing your stance, but continuing to fight in vain.

And as for the puppy... did it ever occur to you that maybe YOU are the puppy and not the mods? I mean, since when are you - a single member - responsible for the 'house-breaking' of the mods?

You've posted your complaint/s. That's the extent of your responsibilities (and abilities). Leave it to Allen (or God or whoever, lol) to 'solve the problem' if he finds that there is one that needs to be solved.

But your constant *****ing is not changing anyone. It's only making the puppies so annoyed that they're going to stop ****ting on the floor, and start ****ting in your bed.
 

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Originally posted by Sexy_Malibu
Well you may say it's not your wish to have the posts deleted from the Bible, but the TITLE of this thread is asking to have your posts deleted from the Bible. But I apologize, that was not an example of you being a hypocrite. It was an example of you changing your stance, but continuing to fight in vain.

And as for the puppy... did it ever occur to you that maybe YOU are the puppy and not the mods? I mean, since when are you - a single member - responsible for the 'house-breaking' of the mods?

You've posted your complaint/s. That's the extent of your responsibilities (and abilities). Leave it to Allen (or God or whoever, lol) to 'solve the problem' if he finds that there is one that needs to be solved.

But your constant *****ing is not changing anyone. It's only making the puppies so annoyed that they're going to stop ****ting on the floor, and start ****ting in your bed.
All I've been doing since the first post is responding to posts made to me and in some cases defending myself against attacks made on me. Anyone who doesn't recognize that hasn't been paying attention.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Originally posted by Wyldfire
All I've been doing since the first post is responding to posts made to me and in some cases defending myself against attacks made on me. Anyone who doesn't recognize that hasn't been paying attention.
Oh! I'm sorry! I guess I wasn't paying attention!!

I must have been distracted by the other 53 threads you started on the subject.

My apologies. I'll try to pay attention to just this one from now on, so I can witness you 'defending' yourself.
 
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