"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I was gonna post this in Anything else, but what I am gonna address happens in this forum the most.

First of all, stop asking "does she Like me?" or " How do I get over oneitis?" or How do I make this girl my girlfriend?" and similar questions. Just about everything here is answered in the DJ bible.

you all just piss the few people who actually do have game, like me, because it is a waste of our time to check into forums offering our valuable time and experience, if NOBODY is gonna learn from it and keeps asking the same stuff over and over again.

http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/

go to this link, read it, and consult it before wasting our time with your questions.

Honestly, this site is getting burned on other sites cuz of the dumb members that don't research anything.

I know people will be offended by this, but if that is what it takes to get them to start learning things for themselves, then about time.

Other people have posted in the past similar messages like this, but lately it has been getting very bad.

So next time you wanna ask a question, follow this procedure:
1. consult DJ bible
2. search forums
3. then, if your question is still unanswerable, THEN post about it, and don't post general questions cuz that is a dead giveaway that you DIDN'T consult the DJ bible.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I agree. Its hard to weed out the good questions from the bad questions, so most questions just go unanswered, good or bad.
 

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Also, we need a flush of new posts, and people to start posting actual experiences.

ie1) Discussion, look for the sticky.
ie2) Tips, look for the sticky
ie3) High School, ONCE AGAIN, look for the damned sticky.

We need those 3 threads to be posted in, and material to come out to influence it all :(
 

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yeah whenever i post a tip or an experience it gets ignored so we can load 400 replies on to a pointless viper thread. not that i write particularly good shiit, but i see it happen to other people too alot
 

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wavejams007 said:
you all just piss the few people who actually do have game, like me,

You may have game but your defineatly not secure by letting these little things get to you. If you don't want to waste your time, then don't open the threads!
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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well what i do when i see a thread with the titles of "does she like me?" "should I ask her out?" "should I take her to McDonald's or Wendy's" I usually just dont click on it and iit makes my time enjoying the board better.
 

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I am secure as hell, but the mods don't seem to be closing pointless threads, and this was an attempt to get some members here to realize what a waste of time these are.

Dimebag, most of the time, I do that, but seriously, people ask where pook and other good posters have gone, and now I know, anywhere but here because of the quality of posts here.


SS is an addiction, it really is. I don't really learn anything from here anymore, yet I still check the forums. I am gonna come less and less in the future.(please keep the cheers that i am coming less to a dull roar please,lol)
 

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wavejams007 said:
I am secure as hell, but the mods don't seem to be closing pointless threads, and this was an attempt to get some members here to realize what a waste of time these are.

Dimebag, most of the time, I do that, but seriously, people ask where pook and other good posters have gone, and now I know, anywhere but here because of the quality of posts here.


SS is an addiction, it really is. I don't really learn anything from here anymore, yet I still check the forums. I am gonna come less and less in the future.(please keep the cheers that i am coming less to a dull roar please,lol)
yeah that happened to me and i feel back to afc'ness, its good to have a reinforcement of values everyday on the boards
 

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Quit being so rough with my pupils.

Dude, you are from Ecuador. That is an even worse place than America when it comes to quality girls. I wonder why all the scam marriage websites never promote girls from Ecuador? MMM...Maybe because the quality is not exactly stunning.
 

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sparky0000 said:
Quit being so rough with my pupils.

Dude, you are from Ecuador. That is an even worse place than America when it comes to quality girls. I wonder why all the scam marriage websites never promote girls from Ecuador? MMM...Maybe because the quality is not exactly stunning.

Well, you are right, I am from Ecuador. BUT, that is it. Yes there are some ugly girls here, but there are some really hott ones too. You know, you shouldn't say anything when you can't prove it. What do I care whether women from here end up on those marriage sites? From the way you write, I doubt you would know ecuador is even in South America if it wasn't in my info already.

thanks for representing the duma$$es though!
(don't take it too seriously)
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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i was flipping through the FHM world lingerie tour and the ecuador model ruined my pants. not that they're all that hot but from my sample they seemed good.
 

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Sorry, but Ecuador is the pits of South America. It sure isn't Argentina. I have a very good friend whose family lives there. He agrees that the average girl is terrible. The best looking girls are the rich girls from the European and Middle Eastern families that rule the country. The Mahuad family (Lebanese) is a great example of what I am talking about. A very powerful and wealthy family that is nothing like the average man on the street. You even had a somewhat infamous Japenese man run your country a few years ago.

I prefer countries where the average girl on the street is poor and gorgeous. I have so much more to offer those girls than some girl who has grown up taking vacations to Nice and St. Moritz.

So, FHM is how you judge the quality of girls from a particular country? Ok, makes zero sense.
 

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sparky0000 said:
Sorry, but Ecuador is the pits of South America. It sure isn't Argentina. I have a very good friend whose family lives there. He agrees that the average girl is terrible. The best looking girls are the rich girls from the European and Middle Eastern families that rule the country. The Mahuad family (Lebanese) is a great example of what I am talking about. A very powerful and wealthy family that is nothing like the average man on the street. You even had a somewhat infamous Japenese man run your country a few years ago.

I prefer countries where the average girl on the street is poor and gorgeous. I have so much more to offer those girls than some girl who has grown up taking vacations to Nice and St. Moritz.

So, FHM is how you judge the quality of girls from a particular country? Ok, makes zero sense.
Dude, you should shut up before you hurt yourself. The japanese guy ruled Peru, not ecuador.

and I went to school with Jamil mahuad's granddaughter. Not that hot a girl. yes, there are powerful families here, but who the hell said they neccessarily run the country? I don't know who you friend is, but he/she is wrong. I live here, you heard this from a good friend. My info is more valid than yours, especially seeing as you don't even know what country is run by who. the Japanese guy's name who governed PERU is Fujimori(sp might be a little uncorrect).

ding ding, round two, duma$$! Wanna be wrong again?(just messing with you, but seriously sparky, you need to get your facts right before trying to argue a point, otherwise you look dumb, like you do here)

I am being harsher than usual sparky, but you are insulting my native country with wrong info. get it right.
 

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if u've been here a while you would see that there is nothing you can do about it. there have been stickies and whatever else was proposed and it still didnt affect people who just found the site.

Why are you letting it get to you. If you are this attached to the site maybe the pointless threads are a blessing in diguise...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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wavejams007 said:
SS is an addiction, it really is. I don't really learn anything from here anymore, yet I still check the forums.

Ha. This is not SS! SS is far more complicated than these forum have to offer.
 
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damn right man, i hate sargin the newbies who are too lazy to read the tips for themselves and try to improve their game, instead they just come here and waste our time.
sht man u really hit the point there.
How ever newbies should not be burned.
 

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wavejams007 said:
...you all just piss the few people who actually do have game, like me, because it is a waste of our time to check into forums offering our valuable time and experience, if NOBODY is gonna learn from it and keeps asking the same stuff over and over again...
Thank you very much. I have no problem offering advice and the likes, but you guys must make an attempt to actually grow a pair. Before you ever post another thread, read the bible. It's preached and preached and preached again (No pun intended) that you should do so. Why don't you? Lazy? Too bad. That is why I'll be taking the girl you like back to my house tonight.

If you're sincere about turning your life around, read the threads. Read as many of them as you can. Read the responses. You'll notice whos got it together and who doesn't. Try a bootcamp. Read the bible. Stop asking simple questions that are easily answered. You should only post threads on unique situations or to talk about something important that happened.

Thank you. Have a wonderful day. I'm going to go make me some breakfast.
 
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