All you need to know when she goes ghost

[TheGambino]

The line he says, the smile after the ''Well... Can't win them all'' and the confidence of knowing the next possible plate is around the corner. This is the mindset we should have when we get rejected or when she goes ghost. That nonchalant attitude is gold. All we need to know.

 

[C00lAF]

If you've gone ghost on a woman, and had her still contacting you, you know how it really looks. And it isn't attractive at all.

I had two women that I broke things off with (nicely, sort of) contacting me in October and November. It's a feeling of sadness, and a bit of embarrassment.

Continued to ghost, and one carried on sending me stuff about how I don't want to speak to her trying to lure me back. It really lowers the experience we had that she can't leave it at that.

Men and women both like a challenge. If a woman being vulnerable like Bambi's mother isn't attractive to me, then I can only imagine what it looks like from a woman's perspective when a man does it.

Why not lead them on like they do to the stacks of guys hitting on them to keep them around? Aka fvck buddies,thats what im actually aiming to do with the majority of my current plates/future plates. They can have their imaginary relationship,the human imagination is vivid lolz

 

[C00lAF]

I think there is a point in doing this when you start to get good, and you start to notice the power completely shift from women to yourself.

At this point you think, "get back at them". You've kicked women off of the pedestal, and now there is the temptation to grind them under your foot.

The next step is getting over that. Being better than it. Do nothing in game out of spite.

I have a general rule, to not go backwards with women. It's bad for my development. It takes my focus away from other women, and stops me moving forward. Then before I know it, months have passed - and I've achieved nothing.

I've found it to be a complacency trap.

Hahaha no man i do not hate women at all,im past that point,but i have goals and a bachelors degree and a job i need to keep,that sometimes i really dont have time at all to date and go out,so i need a quick sex option,and more than one.

 

[C00lAF]

That's fair enough.

I don't make any judgements at all about that for other guys. I'm just in a different mindset at the moment.

Don't want to get diverted. That's what they're up to

Gaming women is very tough in my location,if i lived in the western part of the globe i would have a diffrent mindset

 

[C00lAF]

My mindset is not the norm by a long-shot, so I wouldn't worry about it.

The girls that I could most easily get around my place are the same ones that tried to sneak relationships through the back-door by monopolizing my time and energy. No doubt they would do the same thing again.

It's a lure. They're up to something

Thats certinley a way to look at it,ill stay game aware as much as i can,plates are the last thing to take seriously.thanks for the insights.