All You Need To Know About Relationships

[highSpeed]

As we probably did not already need further proof, sex drive for women dries up once they are in a relationship.

https://www.usatoday.com/story/news...ther-more-likely-lose-interest-sex/665116001/

Read this, it may save your sex life.

Men, want to have sex in a relationship on a regular basis? Do this:
1. Be perfect
2. Be perfect
3. Be perfect

Women, want to have sex in a relationship on a regular basis? Do this:
1. Show up, bring p*ssy
2. Show up, bring p*ssy
3. Show up, bring p*ssy

Anyone want to guess who wins in that power struggle?

 

[zekko]

As we probably did not already need further proof, sex drive for women dries up once they are in a relationship.

That's an interesting article, and an interesting premise, and it kind of makes sense to me. However, I also have to note that has not been my experience. I have yet to date a girl long term and have her lose interest in sex. I've heard of it though, so it can happen.

 

[highSpeed]

That's an interesting article, and an interesting premise, and it kind of makes sense to me. However, I also have to note that has not been my experience. I have yet to date a girl long term and have her lose interest in sex. I've heard of it though, so it can happen.

You know, the long term relationships that I've been in, unfortunately, that has been the case. I've been married twice and that has been the bulk of my adult life. Yea, I know, two time idiot but you know, I got stupid each time. You have a kid with this person, and bam, you're done now. Kids take center stage, they should for the most part, but the relationship has to be preserved. Both times, either the crazy woman or the kids take center stage and the relationship takes a beating. By the time you realize what is going on and really admit it to yourself, you're in too deep and they know it. Crazy woman or not, they all know how to manipulate. If you are a man with a solid career, you're always going to have more skin in the game than they do. Most men I know over the years have made more than their wives, so if you do, and don't have an air tight prenup in place, you're going to get fed to the dogs in the US. Alimony, even if it doesn't last forever, is going to last at least a couple of years. Child support, that lasts to at least 18 these days, so you've got bare minimum, at least a decade or more of payments that amount to at least a couple of grand a month. Me, I'd be on the hook for probably 3-4k a month, maybe more, depending on the judge. So if she gets a couple grand a month, plus 3500 for the kids, you're looking at around 5-6 a month for her and the kids. She knows that, she does. She gets a part time job, now she might be making as much as or more than you. I can't afford to run two households like I currently have and she knows it. Tough to not expect someone to take advantage of a situation when they can. Look at it from her perspective. Hey, I can get the kids, the house, the car(s), money and now the bad boy too? Why the h*ll am I still hanging around here. I've got mr. responsibility to take care of me and the kids and I get the bad boy too? This is a win, win for her. Tough to keep the vag juices flowing in that environment. It's like making the man the unic, chop off his balls and make him your servant.

 

[AJ84]

That's an interesting article, and an interesting premise, and it kind of makes sense to me. However, I also have to note that has not been my experience. I have yet to date a girl long term and have her lose interest in sex. I've heard of it though, so it can happen.

What many of those women never admit is that they have lost interest in sex with their husbands, not sex in general. Like men get bored with the same p**y women too can get bored with the same d**k.

 

[Desdinova]

Women will lose interest in sex with their husbands for two reasons:

1) He is boring, predictable, lacks confidence, is desperate for sex
2) He's not the guy she wants to be fvcking

If the guy is fun, confident, at least occasionally spontaneous, and can take or leave sex, he'll have a better chance of retaining his sex life. If he got in early and has climbed to the top of her high score list, he'll be the one she'll want to fvck forever. Women who rode the c0ck carousel can think of at least two other guys they'd rather be fvcking than their husband.

 

[AJ84]

Women will lose interest in sex with their husbands for two reasons:

1) He is boring, predictable, lacks confidence, is desperate for sex
2) He's not the guy she wants to be fvcking

If the guy is fun, confident, at least occasionally spontaneous, and can take or leave sex, he'll have a better chance of retaining his sex life. If he got in early and has climbed to the top of her high score list, he'll be the one she'll want to fvck forever. Women who rode the c0ck carousel can think of at least two other guys they'd rather be fvcking than their husband.

For sure, and it's the same for men I imagine, when the secs is boring because the wife just lays there or begrudgingly does it telling him to hurry up the whole time. Then she wonders why he eventually chooses porn over her. I think married people owe it to each other to make the sexual fulfillment of the other one a priority, keep it fresh and be open to trying different things and communicating.

 

[highSpeed]

For sure, and it's the same for men I imagine, when the secs is boring because the wife just lays there or begrudgingly does it telling him to hurry up the whole time. Then she wonders why he eventually chooses porn over her. I think married people owe it to each other to make the sexual fulfillment of the other one a priority, keep it fresh and be open to trying different things and communicating.

Look, it goes both ways. Sex can't be fun with a woman who simply lays there and expects you to "bring it" every time. You can't bring anything with someone who simply lays there. You could blame the guy but it takes two people to have a good sex session. Guarantee you, if both people participate, it's going to be fun. Guarantee you, if both people don't participate, it's going to be boring, whether it is just her participating or just the guy. It's like having a one way conversation. If you are doing all of the work to keep a conversation going, one of two things or both is going to happen:

1. You're going to get bored and walk away from the conversation.
2. The other person is going to get bored and walk away from the conversation.

It is the same thing with sex. You could be a great conversationalist and/or great in bed. But with a conversation or sex, if you don't have participation from the other side, it's going to be boring. Yea, you may get your rocks off or tell a few good jokes but it's still not going to be a satisfying sexual experience and/or conversation.