"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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All you need !!! .. From OPENING to CLOSING explained ..

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Daddy The Pimp

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Im gonna keep it simple brothers. Really simple.

All you need is the WILL to approach. The real desire to get good in this game and start getting laid like a rockstar.

I know you have this , otherwise you wouldnt be here.

And , you need these techniques a little bit.
Just to start. Just like a training wheels.

Openers:
" Hi whats up , im DTP "
" Hi , are you guys best friends? "
" Hi im a douchebag , wanna be my friend ?"
" Hi , im police , wanna be my friend ?"
" Hey , meet my friend [ introduce to the wing] "
" Hey , whats your name [ shake her hand , hug ] "

Im using these openers recently. Use them , or select one from the thread below.
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=141518



Ok , now you have opened the set. Remember these things while you're IN.

-You are a MAN, you should not fear anything.
-Don't qualify , don't try to make her like you , assume that she already likes you.
-Be in touch with your core purpose.
-Remember your longterm goal (credit:Snow Plowman)


Anyway , i cant remember anything to add to the list.

So you opened. Now this question pops out :
ABOUT WHAT SHOULD I TALK , HOW SHOULD I CONTINUE AFTER I OPENED?


My favorite way of continuing after the opener is ROLEPLAYING.

Just say these phrases :

" Ok now you're my new girlfriend for the next 5 minutes "
Now start roleplaying. Behave like she's your girlfriend. Hold her hand , kiss her on the cheek , hug her. Tell her that all the girls will be jealous when they see this :p. Break up with her. Re connect again.

" Ok , you're my new body guard for the next five minutes "
Make her follow you , touch her muscles etc.

I generally use that one with the girlfriend. Its so great. Its magical.
The conversation never ends using roleplaying. Than , you can start making her qualify , make her laugh etc.

Anyway , you have opened and now you have something to talk about.
You are also touching her. GREATTTT. Don't forget to go for the close.

Remember this. This is BIG. This is one of the things that fvck up your set.
DONT BE INSIDE YOUR HEAD. DONT TRY TO IMPRESS. DON'T BE OUTCOME DEPENDED. Just enjoy the moment , be cool. Assume attraction.

Also remember this. This is really important.
ALLOW YOURSELF TO BE THE COOL GUY.
What i mean by this? I know you have an image of a cool guy inside your head. Let yourself be that guy.

And for the gods sake , dont chode out. Dont be AFC. Be cool or the GOD OF PICKUP WILL GET REALLY MAD.

Now , you have all you need. Just dress up like a pimp you are , go out and have fun. If you are in State(=outside your head) , and use that sh1t above , you'll get that hottie that you are looking for.

Sounds easy and cool ? Nice.
Thats it. Thats all you need. When these horny girls in the club see this kind of game , they wet their panties.


I tried to make it as simple as i could. For any question , feel free to ask because i might have left something out.


Cool.

Have fun and don't put pressure on yourself :D
DTP
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Props on this DTP

Although I don't agree with the role playing thing for any beginner, role play is great for a guy who is comfortable approaching, and has some solid game (i.e. Dtp, Snow plowman, and myself have great fr's on this) the problem with Role playing is guys don't know how to transition sometimes (i.e. Elstud) I like the you are my girlfriend role play though

I would suggest for any beginner to find out what makes them congruent with themselves and be confident, don't worry about what to say after the opener you can talk about anything but be confident is the upmost importance

"it's not what you say but how you say it"

and remember' to kino asap!!

Solomon

This guy Shezz is also a great example of how to talk to chicks peep his Fr's

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=104898

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=103124
^^this thread goes into greater detail and has tons of jewels in it

peace
 
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Thanks for the feedback guys , im happy that you liked it.
Thanks for the rep Evil Agenda.


Yea Solo , you're right , they have to find whats congruent to them. But until they find what "CLICKS" to them , they can use these lines and techniques. If they can say these things without being creeps (not saying they are but around beautiful women , they bring that inner creep:p) they will have great success using this. When im in field , i swear i don't know what i use. I will call it exploding. I just explode. And its more physical than verbal. Much more. But the good thing is that i can recall it when i start to try to sleep. That when my mind starts getting inside it. Its so outside , living in the moment its not even funny.

Shezz is the man. The second thread looks a great thread , its a bit long but ill read it later.

How have you been on the field Solo :p?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Bump!
It's Saturday, you need this!!!
 
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Awesome. I need to work on role-playing. A good replacement for "girlfriend" is "prom date" too.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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cool, i like to role playing idea.
 
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