Klippymitch
Don Juan
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I like it. good idea.Ripper said:
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
All women are sluts
- Thread starter Oxide
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
This all is pretty much summed up nicely in the truth about women thread:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=83349&highlight=truth+women
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=83349&highlight=truth+women
THE_ADDMAN
Master Don Juan
Ripper said:
leave the pole identification to the sluts whom we are discussing :nono:
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Where do I start? SoSuave has helped me immensely in refining and fine tuning my game. I never had trouble getting girls before, I'm a good lucking guy and pretty confident naturally. My own problem was that I always fell for girls to easily and became consumed by my love for them which eventually lead to the destruction of the relationship. Now what I've noticed that when dating younger girls (16-17, I'm 18) is that they always talk about how they want a RELATIONSHIP. Now prior to this site and a girl breaking my heart over the summer I would have thought this was a good thing but now I have a huge barrier in which I feel girls have to cross before I even consider having a relationship with a girl. Now with younger girls who have no real experience in relationships (I.E. virgins) i have to assume that when they say they don't cheat and don't do bad things (like **** 10 different dudes or play games) its because of sheer innocence and because they don't know any better. But then again maybe there are girls out there that just aren't slutty like that? Just like there are guys that are cheaters that aren't and some that are, it depends on the person. But is this part of the risk I should be willing to take? I also know that they aren't just saying this to impress me because I usually make it clear that I'm not in a relationship and I see many girls so they know I'm not the relationship type. I also know with Virgins you have to invest an amount a certain amount of time and build trust with these girls before anything happens. I'm just wondering if I allow myself too be in a relationship with a girl who is inexperienced and dosent know what I know and believe what she says about not cheating and not being a slut would I just be fooling myself because I know what girls nature is truly like? Or should I just follow my own intuition and continue to stay cautious if a relationship ever develops. I know for A FACT with girls that aren't virgins and are experienced I know to be extremely cautious but with inexperienced girls it seems different...any input would be appreciated...