Klippymitch
Don Juan
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I like it. good idea.Ripper said:
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
All women are sluts
- Thread starter Oxide
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
This all is pretty much summed up nicely in the truth about women thread:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=83349&highlight=truth+women
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=83349&highlight=truth+women
THE_ADDMAN
Master Don Juan
Ripper said:
leave the pole identification to the sluts whom we are discussing :nono:
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Where do I start? SoSuave has helped me immensely in refining and fine tuning my game. I never had trouble getting girls before, I'm a good lucking guy and pretty confident naturally. My own problem was that I always fell for girls to easily and became consumed by my love for them which eventually lead to the destruction of the relationship. Now what I've noticed that when dating younger girls (16-17, I'm 18) is that they always talk about how they want a RELATIONSHIP. Now prior to this site and a girl breaking my heart over the summer I would have thought this was a good thing but now I have a huge barrier in which I feel girls have to cross before I even consider having a relationship with a girl. Now with younger girls who have no real experience in relationships (I.E. virgins) i have to assume that when they say they don't cheat and don't do bad things (like **** 10 different dudes or play games) its because of sheer innocence and because they don't know any better. But then again maybe there are girls out there that just aren't slutty like that? Just like there are guys that are cheaters that aren't and some that are, it depends on the person. But is this part of the risk I should be willing to take? I also know that they aren't just saying this to impress me because I usually make it clear that I'm not in a relationship and I see many girls so they know I'm not the relationship type. I also know with Virgins you have to invest an amount a certain amount of time and build trust with these girls before anything happens. I'm just wondering if I allow myself too be in a relationship with a girl who is inexperienced and dosent know what I know and believe what she says about not cheating and not being a slut would I just be fooling myself because I know what girls nature is truly like? Or should I just follow my own intuition and continue to stay cautious if a relationship ever develops. I know for A FACT with girls that aren't virgins and are experienced I know to be extremely cautious but with inexperienced girls it seems different...any input would be appreciated...