"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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All woman want sex? Sounds rediculous

antidonjuan

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I've been surfing through this site for a while and I get the feeling that all of you guys think all girls want sex!? I dun get it, I keep on hearing people say that guys want sex and girls want love. Whenever someone talk about sex infront of girls, the girls are very disturbed

the phrase guys want sex and girls want love is very common and seems like it, i personally agree with donjuanita because girls seem to hate guys talking about sex, they seem to rather want a long lasting relationship rather than sex, the girls never have any sign of wanting sex what so ever.

well, maybe im wrong but i still dont get it, this might be a key misconception for me, what is wrong with my observations that girls want love rather than sex?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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All women love sex, but unlike men its not there priority to **** a guy everyday, you must get women horny then they cant get it off there mind
 

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this is a joke right? :crackup:

haha, jk jk.

Both girls and guys love sex and relationships.
Some more than others, but it's not really a gender thing.

The reason that you may think the way you do is that society looks down upon sexually open girls, but accepts sexually open guys. This is why girls may suppress their want to have their sh1t pushed in :D
 

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Crazy Asian said:
this is a joke right? :crackup:

haha, jk jk.

Both girls and guys love sex and relationships.
Some more than others, but it's not really a gender thing.

The reason that you may think the way you do is that society looks down upon sexually open girls, but accepts sexually open guys. This is why girls may suppress their want to have their sh1t pushed in :D
Couldn't have said it better
 

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you learn once your older mate

women love having sex too

its a common miscopncenption to those who havn't been with many that, women dont like, or artn't after sex

they are. escpcially at the beginnign of hot relationshi, they want to have sex alot

i speak from experince, plus the same goes for 2 other mates of mine

however it is also true, that after a while, that passion fizzles out a bit, and you won't be having sex everyday
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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agreed, my girlfriend and mine first conversation was about sex.

The only time girls don't like sex is when the sex is terrible.

Women love sex. Both my ex and my current girlfriend love sex. My current girlfriend after not seeing me for a week, I showed up at her door and she was naked and said, "I want you now." It was a fun time.

comic_relief
 

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LostAndConfused said:
Last date I went on, every other comment was sexually charged.

Did I get any though? Nope.

Therein lies the paradox.
Sometimes it happens, keep gaming though.

comic_relief
 

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antidonjuan said:
I've been surfing through this site for a while and I get the feeling that all of you guys think all girls want sex!? I dun get it, I keep on hearing people say that guys want sex and girls want love. Whenever someone talk about sex infront of girls, the girls are very disturbed

the phrase guys want sex and girls want love is very common and seems like it, i personally agree with donjuanita because girls seem to hate guys talking about sex, they seem to rather want a long lasting relationship rather than sex, the girls never have any sign of wanting sex what so ever.

well, maybe im wrong but i still dont get it, this might be a key misconception for me, what is wrong with my observations that girls want love rather than sex?
Dude listen to a girl's vocal tonality and you could hear how badly theywant some d!ck b/c many of them r sexually frustrated.

sarge on..
 

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y are girls so afraid of being called a slut? if they like sex, y not go for it?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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sorry if im childish or nooby, but if i am with a girl that is comfortable with me alone, should i ask somethin like: did u have sex before? is that the ways to talk about sex with girl?

sorry if i am pathetic
 

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antidonjuan said:
sorry if im childish or nooby, but if i am with a girl that is comfortable with me alone, should i ask somethin like: did u have sex before? is that the ways to talk about sex with girl?

sorry if i am pathetic
You are pathetic, and your names even worse, I thought you was a woman until I read this.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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not only are girls fascinated about sex, but they also dont feel love. love in the way that we man can. they love men as gardeners love plants (as pook said), they look after them and try to clip and trim them to fit their world and be their source of pleasure and energy (just like a farmer gets energy from the potatoes he grows) and when they get tired of the same plant, they go for the next one, while often still keeping the old one as a source of financial security. the only way to avoid this cruel utilisation is to free us from our sexual desires. a loss either way :(
 
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