"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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All this gaming, how do you guys know when you found the ONE?

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See title. This post was prompted by Sexxyback's thread that a girl rocked his world. With so much gaming on, how do you guys know when you've found someone you want to get involved with Long Term?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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There is no such thing as "The ONE." Some ppl you click with, but there is no "The ONE."
 
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ryannath said:
There is no such thing as "The ONE." Some ppl you click with, but there is no "The ONE."
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Do any of you guys ever end up getting married or do you all just end up in a sting of failed relationships?

When do you guys go LTR?
 
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Some guys make "gaming" one of their goals in life. It doesn't matter when, where, who or how; just that they will game pretty much anyone that moves. Other guys "game" purposely. They have actually taken the time to define the type of woman that interests them and they "game" until they come across the right one.
 
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Francisco d'Anconia said:
Some guys make "gaming" one of their goals in life. It doesn't matter when, where, who or how; just that they will game pretty much anyone that moves. Other guys "game" purposely. They have actually taken to time to define the type of woman that interests them and they "game" until they come across the right one.
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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