"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I can not get this girl out my head. All day everyday I'm constantly thinking about this girl in my class. She is not physically amazing by anyone's standard, but she is undeniably cute and charming. The first day of class I caught her leering at me, she follows up her leer session by giving me some intense EC and says to me: "I know you from somewhere," and I reply that she probably dreamed about me or something.

Everyday in class I catch her looking at me to the point that I feel uncomfortable. I don't know if she's some kind of Wicca that has put a spell on me, but now she's constantly on my mind. I wonder if this is some kind of adult crush or what, because it feels a little strange? It is like I have some sort of connection with her.... Maybe she's been running MPS (Mind Power Seduction) on me?:cheer:

I had a stalker in the past and I hope that she doesn't go all crazy on me...
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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If she's pulled the "I know you from somwhere" or "You look familiar" then odds are she's hot for you. This is another way of her saying "I want you in bed if you lead the way." Read the bible, drop some lines to her knowing that she'll bite. If there's any doubt in your mind that she won't bite on what you say, then she won't. She'll sense your insecurity in a hot minute. If she's just starting to get into your mind every day, don't let it happen. Keep your options open, but pursue this girl like she's just another girl falling under your spell. This way, if things crash and burn (which believe me if you do what I say, they won't), then you're not totally devastated.
 

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Yeah I know I can have her, but... I have a GF, so I'm not really trying to go there. Her "I know u from somewhere," really didnt come of as "game," because her body language really did express that "hey I know you" gesture. I just have this really weird feeling about her...strange vibes.... is she an angel?:crazy:
 

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DonJuanByNature said:
Usually the faster(stronger) it comes, the faster(stronger) it goes away... Unless your going to marry your gf and father her children, give this girl a DIRTY SANCHEZ
It's not worth and I'm trying to be faithful (good luck)
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Do not eat anything she offers you.
 
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