"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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So in the past couple years I've been in a stage of questioning and searching for meaning in my life. Maybe this existentialism happened a little sooner for me than it does for most people. After much introspection, I concluded that the meaning of life is to never stop learning about, pursuing, and doing whatever the hell you may be most interested in at that moment.

Well I've been trying to figure out what I want to get my degree in since I'm just about done with undergraduate work...possibly thinking about liberal studies since I can dabble in just about anything that interests me...art, literature, history, sociology, psych, etc. I basically want to be a modern day Renaissance man, as my future as a pilot requires a degree, but not in anything specific.
But looking at the course catalog, there are only a couple of classes that I haven't had already (I'm at a 2 year school improving my GPA so I can transfer), two of them being Social Problems and Human Sexuality. So I'm thinking hell, I can learn the underlying dynamics of social and sexual interaction while earning college credit! Not to mention the fact that most girls (tons of hotties) at my school are Sociology and Psych majors. That's like killing three birds with one stone (degree requirement, learning game theory, and meeting women.) Sorry if I'm ranting, but I'm feeling pretty smart right about now.

Now if only I could put this kind of dynamic thinking into starting a successful business, I'd be set.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Sounds good. But, make sure that degree takes you where you want to be in life.

Edit: *spelling errors*
 
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Ha, I think even talking about my childhood would be a turn-on to most psych majors (almost wrote psycho..lol). I was fortunate enough to have two parents who were stable in their marriage and supported my childhood endeavors as much as possible.

The main reason I want to learn as much about women as possible is so that I make damn sure I know how find the right one for when I want to have kids...not ending in divorce 5 or 10 years down the road and screwing the kids over emotionally.
 
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