"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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"All the of sluts are getting married"

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Years back, my super single female friend was on social media and blurted out with envy " how come all of the sluts are getting married". Well that so called slut was pretty simple to figure out. She met guys, gave up the ***** in hopes of commitment. No game playing. This is why this "slut" is married. You the " non slut" would rather go on an expensive date, ghost like 5 dudes and play text games. The slut is not too picky. While you are waaay too picky.

If a girl is hard to figure out to you, then she is probably hard to figure out to a lot of other guys too. The women that play power games...will always be single. If they do manage to catch a guy, he will usually be a beta and it will not end well. Trust me on this. The game players do not win in the end. You always get what you put out into the universe.

Remember that the girls that are easy to get along with are always wifed up. Almost every girl that gave me the ***** easily, appreciated my chivalry and was easy to date is in a good relationship now. It wasn't that I was so amazing. It was because they generally respond well to decent men and don't play games.

The girls that are attention *****s and use their pu**y to string you along or just do retarded **** will be single well into their thirties. There is a misconception that these girls will win in the end by riding the carousel and then settling down with a beta. Settling down with a man that has no self respect is not winning in the end.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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A lot of thruths in this Pandora, I agree from my limited experience.
 

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Years back, my super single female friend was on social media and blurted out with envy " how come all of the sluts are getting married". Well that so called slut was pretty simple to figure out. She met guys, gave up the ***** in hopes of commitment. No game playing. This is why this "slut" is married. You the " non slut" would rather go on an expensive date, ghost like 5 dudes and play text games. The slut is not too picky. While you are waaay too picky.

If a girl is hard to figure out to you, then she is probably hard to figure out to a lot of other guys too. The women that play power games...will always be single. If they do manage to catch a guy, he will usually be a beta and it will not end well. Trust me on this. The game players do not win in the end. You always get what you put out into the universe.

Remember that the girls that are easy to get along with are always wifed up. Almost every girl that gave me the ***** easily, appreciated my chivalry and was easy to date is in a good relationship now. It wasn't that I was so amazing. It was because they generally respond well to decent men and don't play games.

The girls that are attention *****s and use their pu**y to string you along or just do retarded **** will be single well into their thirties. There is a misconception that these girls will win in the end by riding the carousel and then settling down with a beta. Settling down with a man that has no self respect is not winning in the end.
probably chicks from old do this. they switch, switch, switch till they find the best man ever that is absolutely above her league. then he does pump and dump after couple of months. they end sad and alone
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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The players are sluts too!

lolz!

Secondary plates don't get any, only for primary plates! !!:p

They're just more picky on who they 'slut it up' with.
 

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The players are sluts too!

lolz!

Secondary plates don't get any, only for primary plates! !!:p

They're just more picky on who they 'slut it up' with.
Correct. Actually these types of girls when they are on their prime usually hangout with alpha types of guys.
 

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With my years I am quite cynical about the mating game. At this point, if a woman's slutty years means that she has honed her sexual technique, and realizes that she must perform to keep a man, then maybe it's all for the good. Unlike the new trend of "sexless marriage", easy access to the tang - along with not too much drama, and so long as the quality of the body depreciates slowly - is enough for me. When I am abroad from the USA, my answer to trying to access sex via a casual fling is just simply to pay for it. Sometimes I wonder if marrying one of these hoes with heart would be the easier choice.
 

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Years back, my super single female friend was on social media and blurted out with envy " how come all of the sluts are getting married". Well that so called slut was pretty simple to figure out. She met guys, gave up the ***** in hopes of commitment. No game playing. This is why this "slut" is married. You the " non slut" would rather go on an expensive date, ghost like 5 dudes and play text games. The slut is not too picky. While you are waaay too picky.
loads of girls call other girls sluts for not being prudes like they are it's a method of justifying your own behavior by saying that actually its everyone else who is wrong
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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i dont agree with this post. chick "game" is natural. most, women from "good girls" to "bar slvts" are naturals at game and ALL of its facets. with the condition that the vast majority of them operate from a position of being blissfully unaware of the forces that drive them. chicks dont know that theyre running chick game when they dont respond right away to your texts, when they try to make you jealous, when they shlt test you etc. its part of her programming, they just reframe the reasoning for their behavior in another way (just like this post is doing)

what your friend was overtly letting slip out was her frustration and lament that a girl above her SMV was able to sleep with sexually viable men AND find provider. she was able to maximize and cash in on her smv

there is no distinction between "good girls" and "slvts" women are women and theyre all capable of the same things. all this thread is doing is going a step further to support a girl whos smv isnt quite up there. which leads me to believe the OP is a chick herself
Lol definitely not a chick. I don't know if that was an insult or not. I disagree with you. Not all chicks have chick game ( of course every girl has a little game because of their natural ability to manipulative). If you have met and dated a girl that is from a place where they are not worshiped, it is like day and night. I have dated girls from other countries. When they first get into the Unites States they are quite straightforward. They play very little games.

What we consider girl game, is really just United States Over-worshiped Hot Chick game. When you have 20 guys pursuing you, its easy to have game. You are in the power position. Girls are naturally pathetic at game when they don't have the advantage of being worshipped. Trust me, they know when they are not returning your text. This is why they won't ever do that to very high value guys. They would return every text of Brad Pitt. They treat us like dirt because in the United States they are super worshipped.

You saying that there is no distinction between sluts is wrong. Yes every girl is capable of anything. Thats true for all people. But there is a big difference between how a girl from a conservative country dates and the way a girl from this country dates. This is why you see foreign ugly loser looking dudes with hot chicks. Do you think Amish girls act like the club girls?

The point of this post is that if my friend wasn't so picky, she would be married too. But these girls play themselves out of position. And my friend is a muslim girl that is super religious and a virgin. But her standards are high as ****. Too high. No guy is good enough unless he looks like a 9/10. But the girls that have realistic expectations get good stuff in the end.
 
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loads of girls call other girls sluts for not being prudes like they are it's a method of justifying your own behavior by saying that actually its everyone else who is wrong
She's a virgin that hears the whole head scarf hijab thing. So she's not saying it to justify her slutty behavior. The point is that the girls that want to find Mr.Perfect and curve the average guy, always end up lonely. Game players end up with nothing. The more open and friendly girls end up with good guys. So these girls are ultimately playing themselves.
 

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But in the end these players will always be single or divorced.
Yeh thats what I'm saying. People give a bad name to sluts. But sluts at least let you form a relationship with them. Its what comes after the relationship that is the problem. These female players don't even give you a chance. But they are not doing that just to you. They are doing that to a ton of other guys. Thats why almost every female player you know is still single today.
 

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She's a virgin that hears the whole head scarf hijab thing. So she's not saying it to justify her slutty behavior. The point is that the girls that want to find Mr.Perfect and curve the average guy, always end up lonely. Game players end up with nothing. The more open and friendly girls end up with good guys. So these girls are ultimately playing themselves.
I said she's justifying prudish ( IE boring ) behavior by claiming that the other girls are sluts

I've known girls too insecure to wear mini skirts that claim that they're for sluts and since she's not a slut she only goes out in baggy jeans and sweatpants
 

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I said she's justifying prudish ( IE boring ) behavior by claiming that the other girls are sluts

I've known girls too insecure to wear mini skirts that claim that they're for sluts and since she's not a slut she only goes out in baggy jeans and sweatpants
yeh i agree. I misread ur other post.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I agree with the OP.

My personal experience, short story:

My first date with my now wife was 24 hours in a hotel room. I was pre-vetted because I was a good friend of her sister. Plus we have crazy chemistry.

Long story:
My now-wife, who at the time was my girlfriend, was unsure of my commitment and we broke up for 6 months. So, I dated a lot.

Most of the online girls hit me with crazy sh*t tests, very early on. The tests never seemed to end. It was no fun at all.

Finally, I found a nice girl, petite, dark hair, green and eyes. She loved my dogs, a big plus. We dated for 4 weeks.

We never had s*x. She was 41, had never even had a boyfriend and sounds like she gave up her virginity to an online player who dumped her right after s*x. Meanwhile, I was forced to jump through lots of commitment hoops just for a chance of s*x with her. I had to suffer because she was “played”. Not my fault she made a poor decision. We were getting close to becoming boyfriend/girlfriend. And we probably would have been intimate in another week or so. She just had way too much control when it came to s*x.

But just then, my now wife calls me up wants to get back with me. I immediately dumped the girl I was dating who had way too much restraint when it came to sex. Had she been intimate with me early on, the outcome might have been different.

Bottom line, the physical woman married me and won the prize.
 
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