Almost all the great social artists started with this very first step. In fact: most millionaires, professional athletes, great actors, winners, all share this common technique...............so what it is?
INNER GAME-yup the secret is that you absolutely MUST have "IT" going on within your own head BEFORE you begin your journey to greatness.
So how do U do that:VISUALISATIONS-you must envision YOURSELF crossing the finish line first, being the winner, succeeding your task, etc.
APPLICATION:you can use various methods to psych yourself up for the task (verbal affirmations, looking in the mirror, writing motivational words of wisdom, adopting the CAN DO attitude, playing great speeches or music to set the mood, etc)
REALITY-now if you are in a bar/club eyes closed, crossing your fingers, chanting "PLEASE DONT REJECT ME" over and over, you might discover a few things.
1) possibilty of bumping into the big, muscle dude-almost always ends with you getting your butt stomped upon.
2) NO WOMEN will find that attractive, in fact she may look at you like an escaped mental patient.
3) You are just a stones throw away from a much needed psych evaluation.
So IN THE PRIVACY of your own home, feel free to do the whole positive vibration act. When in a club (public setting) just do a brief visualization and venture forward.
WHAT SHOULD I THINK ABOUT:ah good question........the answer is POSITIVE THOUGHTS, you want to be in your happy place.
If you concentrate on negative aspects you may find your fear comes alive. Let me say that again......focus on your deepest fear and it becomes a reality. It's the old self fulfliing prophecy cliche` in full effect.
Ever heard of someone who was in an accident, rushed to the hospital and then you get the news. Some people cross their fingers and get all upset and think: "GOD I HOPE THEY ARE ALL RIGHT, PLEASE DON'T LET THEM DIE LORD". Those are negative thoughts..........redirect your mind to more positive thoughts, concentrate on seeing them real soon at a party. The power of mental thoughts CAN AFFECT REALITY.
REFUSE TO LET ANYTHING NEGATIVE, ANY SETBACKS TO control your reality. Tap into the part of your brain that goes beyond scientific fact and recreate your reality. Master your thoughts and you control your destiny.
Do this an you will begin to notice a positive chain reaction in your life.
SUSPEND YOUR DIS-BELIEF, OPEN YOUR MIND, SEE IT FIRST.........THEN ACHIEVE IT.
THIS IS THE VERY FIRST STEP IN BECOMING SOMEONE WHO IS OF GREAT CHARACTER.
INNER GAME-yup the secret is that you absolutely MUST have "IT" going on within your own head BEFORE you begin your journey to greatness.
So how do U do that:VISUALISATIONS-you must envision YOURSELF crossing the finish line first, being the winner, succeeding your task, etc.
APPLICATION:you can use various methods to psych yourself up for the task (verbal affirmations, looking in the mirror, writing motivational words of wisdom, adopting the CAN DO attitude, playing great speeches or music to set the mood, etc)
REALITY-now if you are in a bar/club eyes closed, crossing your fingers, chanting "PLEASE DONT REJECT ME" over and over, you might discover a few things.
1) possibilty of bumping into the big, muscle dude-almost always ends with you getting your butt stomped upon.
2) NO WOMEN will find that attractive, in fact she may look at you like an escaped mental patient.
3) You are just a stones throw away from a much needed psych evaluation.
So IN THE PRIVACY of your own home, feel free to do the whole positive vibration act. When in a club (public setting) just do a brief visualization and venture forward.
WHAT SHOULD I THINK ABOUT:ah good question........the answer is POSITIVE THOUGHTS, you want to be in your happy place.
If you concentrate on negative aspects you may find your fear comes alive. Let me say that again......focus on your deepest fear and it becomes a reality. It's the old self fulfliing prophecy cliche` in full effect.
Ever heard of someone who was in an accident, rushed to the hospital and then you get the news. Some people cross their fingers and get all upset and think: "GOD I HOPE THEY ARE ALL RIGHT, PLEASE DON'T LET THEM DIE LORD". Those are negative thoughts..........redirect your mind to more positive thoughts, concentrate on seeing them real soon at a party. The power of mental thoughts CAN AFFECT REALITY.
REFUSE TO LET ANYTHING NEGATIVE, ANY SETBACKS TO control your reality. Tap into the part of your brain that goes beyond scientific fact and recreate your reality. Master your thoughts and you control your destiny.
Do this an you will begin to notice a positive chain reaction in your life.
SUSPEND YOUR DIS-BELIEF, OPEN YOUR MIND, SEE IT FIRST.........THEN ACHIEVE IT.
THIS IS THE VERY FIRST STEP IN BECOMING SOMEONE WHO IS OF GREAT CHARACTER.
