"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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All the good ones have boyfriends

Le Parisien

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I know I've typed this many times here already... but since this boyfriend topic gets brought up all the time by different people, I will type it here again:

Just like the French would say: girls/women are like parking spaces, the best ones are always taken. Remember this, and stop the self limiting "taken = off limit" dogma.

May I add that although the parked cars don't occupy the spaces forever, you need to be at the right place at the right time in order to get a good spot for yourself. Sure if you are "smart" and observing, in average you can get your spots faster and better, but nothing beats a big chunk of luck.

I think it's not good to discard the fact that the girl's taken, trying to break up happy couples isn't cool, plus most likely you will only crash and burn.

However, as long as the chick isn't married, we should be aware of her attitude towards you, be responsive to her actions.
Maybe she's tired of her boring boyfriend, maybe she's doing the monkey branching and the next branch she's reaching out to is you.
Or maybe she' really happy about her relationship, maybe she just dumped another guy for him and their relationship is still fresh and exciting.

Just observe and act accordingly. Never say never but also never take things for sure until you have them.:up:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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