Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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All right Sosuave - you are going to help me get her - are you up for the challenge?

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I'll try to keep this short guys.

All right, heres the deal. Ive been a member here for a while but havent posted in a long time, mainly due to having a longterm GF and whatnot but you dont really care.

Anyways, there is this girl who I have been casually dating for a while, nothing like any girl Ive seen before, none of the usual stuff works with her. She still seems pretty interested.

Anyways, let me explain the situation here, we have been out a few times and its gone pretty well, we have kissed and all that jazz. She is a bit awkward in public or when she is with my/her friends, im guessing this is because she is nervousm or at least I hope so. Amirite?

She was supposed to come over tonight but she just text'd me and told me she got her period (TMI, I know.) and didnt feel very sexy, she seemed legit sorry, but I mean, its still a flake. So she is coming over tomorrow instead.

So Sosuave, you are going to follow us through our relationship and help me in times of trouble. Ready?

This probably wont get interesting after Ive been with her tomorrow, so make sure to keep watching.

Any ideas for what we should do? I was thinking just enjoying the spring view and maybe cook something.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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or just put on some old sheets you don't care about, and when she ruins them, she'll feel bad and buy you new, better sheets!
 

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wont she still be on the rag 2mor aswell.
also period sex is not good dude its foul
 

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Yes she will still be on the rag tomorrow, but she said that the first day is always the worst and that she really wants to see me tomorrow.

Im not sure if I even want to bang her tomorrow, not really my thing with the vaginableeding and whatnot.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Before I get into this I have to ask a few questions.

How akward is she while in public or around friends?

You've said that you've been dating a while. How long is a while?

What makes her different than any girl you've dated?
 

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Why can't you wait 3-4 days? YOu don't need our help, these thigns tend to take care of themselves when you both want each other. ALl you need to do is create the situation and opportunity
 

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Faded Image said:
Before I get into this I have to ask a few questions.

How akward is she while in public or around friends?

You've said that you've been dating a while. How long is a while?

What makes her different than any girl you've dated?
Well, we've been casually dating for a month or so, so not very long.

I think im overreacting about the whole awkward thing. She is sort of inexperienced and probably just nervous, and its not like she would be ashamed of being seen with me. Not to be arrogant or anything but Im pretty well known and popular around my area. She is just a little bit skeptical about showing lots of emotions or physical action around other people.

What makes her different? She is so "hard to get" and im man who loves what he cant have. She doesnt respond very well to techniques and all that, you just have to be naturally charming to get her. Theres not much more I can physically say, sometimes you just a get a feeling and you know she is not like everyone else.

Also, just finished the date, it was great. Way better than expected.
We watched Borat, of all movies, but had some great laughs, moved into my bedroom and started fooling around, got undressed and had some fun. If she didnt have that god damned period we would have gone all the way.

So, good date, Ill update this thread with questions as time goes by.

Sir_Turtle said:
Why can't you wait 3-4 days? YOu don't need our help, these thigns tend to take care of themselves when you both want each other. ALl you need to do is create the situation and opportunity

I dont want to wait, and neither does she. Why wait when I we can get together both today and in 4 days. Why do I want your help? This is a forum where people do help eachother isnt it?
 
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