"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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All of you FRAUDS - STOP POSTING!!!

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I don't want to name names, but some of you fools are useless and bring this forum down bigtime - the fools who post based on what they have READ instead of based on what WORKS IN REAL LIFE

this includes fools like DonJuan11, Maxtro, Mad Manic, among other various virgins/poorly experienced guys who come here and post ADVICE to guys who are actually having girl issues

if you are unexperienced, DONT POST ADVICE. its ANNOYING AS HELL to look at and it does the don juan site absolutely no good whatsoever!!!

all the frauds who post here (you all know who you are), stop being the scum of the earth and actually make something of yourselves instead of trying to pretend that sosuave is some kind of "home" to you, ITS NOT YOUR HOME, its just a place to grow and learn - simply posting BULLSHYT THEORIES AND NOT HAVING SUCCESS IN YOUR OWN LIVES IS UNACCEPTABLE

understand you fools?

big words from a guy who has 40 messages in two days

there is tons of crappy advice advice from posteres as well as the dj bible(yah i said it)

I couldn't agree more that practice makes perfect but I appreciate any viewpoint and take it with a grain of salt
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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must be AFCSaviour..I can see the anger through the posts..just like when I predicted the Giants would win and he said I was a fool..
 

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Ok troll. Since you have the audacity to call me out by name you have to defend your claim.

Find posts where I give bad advice. Explain how it is bad and what you think is the proper course of action.

If you can't do that, then you are nothing but a steaming pile of shit

A thread you should have read before you decided to post this crap
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=139364
 
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Ok troll. Since you have the audacity to call me out by name you have to defend your claim.

Find posts where I give bad advice. Explain how it is bad and what you think is the proper course of action.

If you can't do that, then you are nothing but a steaming pile of shit

A thread you should have read before you decided to post this crap
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=139364

thats the thing.......even if your advice isnt bad, why do you even give advice if you cant even apply it to your own life??? surely, if you yourself followed the advice you preach, you'd be getting women left and right, correct?

thats why i called u out
 
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saber said:
big words from a guy who has 40 messages in two days

there is tons of crappy advice advice from posteres as well as the dj bible(yah i said it)

I couldn't agree more that practice makes perfect but I appreciate any viewpoint and take it with a grain of salt

hey i agree for sure

# of posts has nothing to do with anything, i was home all day yesterday and i felt like posting up alot, because i had too crazy of a night before and didnt wanna go out anywhere

players take time off sometimes too, u think i need to be out sarging girls if i just ****ed my gf 6 times all night long?

:)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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thats the thing.......even if your advice isnt bad, why do you even give advice if you cant even apply it to your own life??? surely, if you yourself followed the advice you preach, you'd be getting women left and right, correct?

thats why i called u out
Thanks for explaining yourself.

Have you ever heard the concept that teaching somebody is a great way to help yourself learn?

When I try and give somebody advice on how to handle a situation, it helps reaffirm what I know. Thoughts that are just vague ideas in my head look more sound when I type them and apply them to various situations. It's a minor way to improve confidence.

There is a big difference between giving advice and me fallowing what I say. There is no risk involved in helping others. I don't have to leave my comfort zone and I can't fail.

Is this good for me as a person? Absolutely not. I have done a lot of introspection this weekend and I need to start taking some risks.
 

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Maxtro said:
Have you ever heard the concept that teaching somebody is a great way to help yourself learn?

When I try and give somebody advice on how to handle a situation, it helps reaffirm what I know. Thoughts that are just vague ideas in my head look more sound when I type them and apply them to various situations. It's a minor way to improve confidence.
Yes. I think even Swinggcat or one of those dudes says that teaching is learning..Come to think of it, I think it was D'Angelo who said that in his 77 Laws of Success with Women and Dating audio tape series.
 
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but Maxtro, u have all this knowledge, yet u are still a frustrated guy (i read sosuave at work and i see what u post about)

im just letting u know, and letting all the frauds know, the SOLUTION to all this, is to just go out there and get experience.......just do it

get rejected 1000 times in a row, it doesnt matter, u'll always end up knowing more than u knew before

just sitting here and trying to make yourself feel good because you know theories, it will NOT help you in life with women at all

hey, why do i say this??? because I am a living breathing example of it
 

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UP,

I agree with you 100%. I'm not going to give you the reasons as to why I am not out there getting experience, because I know that they are all bullshit.

I need to get my priorities straight.
 

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Caveat Emptor

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my suggestion is to make a sticky thread simply detailing how much experience everyone has so that when people receive advice, they will only bother reading advice from real life players, not real life theorizers (if thats even a word!!)
So everyone has to give the details of all their previous experience in a sticky thread?

As regards this army of well-meaning people supposedly being lead astray by the Keyboard Jockeys who post here... so the fvck what? Caveat emptor, let the buyer beware. If you cant sniff out a seasoned, mature and honest poster whose writing resonates with your past experience- then you're at the mercy of anyone who clicks on the reply button. Stupid people are born to be manipulated, so, it follows...

I give advice to people whose game is obviously weaker than mine, because these people and their problems are more 'transparent' to me, having been in their shoes. I dont give advice to guys whose game is farther advanced than mine, and it is relatively easy for me to tell who they are. Everyone should have a relatively good feeling for where they are on the 'ladder' of DJing and know to only advise people who are obviously one or more rungs below them, and confer with people on the same rung and inquire of those on the rungs above them.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I think enough has been said. Thread Closed
 
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