All of my class thinks im needy and try every girl

[nelysses]

Actually the title is true. I am in med school in a small city's small town(its like 10k people living) First i came here I wrote 15 of my classmates. Yeah you heard right. I didn't go and talk. I replied one's story and then other one then other one so in different times it's like i tried everybody but i didn't get any girl.

So all of my class calls me " he try every girl"
That was 1,5 year ago but their thoughts are still same. As i say it's a small town. I have just 3 friends. I can't meet or know new people. What can i do? My university years is toooo bad nowadays.

 

[Serenity]

Sounds like your only option is to move somewhere else where nobody knows you.

 

[Bokanovsky]

They may be on to something.

Also, how can you be in med school at age 20?

 

[TheManMasenko]

Similar situation bro..I get called “a hoe” when I’m not but that’s because I was following mediocre advice from people on this forum and my bad friend group.

I used to spam approach and inniate sex as soon as I saw fit. Don’t do this. Be patient and nice.

Build friendship with the woman in your area brother. Don’t focus on the sex rather the . Treat the woman nice too and compliment them.

The goal isn’t sex. But if you’re a lost soul spinning plates get it how you can.

 

[CjXo]

That’s why I laugh when I see them low value desperate dudes on here/online say “it’s a numbers game bro”
Get on dating apps and switch locations.

 

[TheManMasenko]

That’s why I laugh when I see them low value desperate dudes on here/online say “it’s a numbers game bro”
Get on dating apps and switch locations.

Short term solution. Long term problem.

OP just needs to have a better mentality about dating/woman/himself and be friend them.

 

[TheManMasenko]

They may be on to something.

Also, how can you be in med school at age 20?

Pre med program most likely (Radiology, Nurse, PA)

 

[Learning Curve]

Actually the title is true. I am in med school in a small city's small town(its like 10k people living) First i came here I wrote 15 of my classmates. Yeah you heard right. I didn't go and talk. I replied one's story and then other one then other one so in different times it's like i tried everybody but i didn't get any girl.

So all of my class calls me " he try every girl"
That was 1,5 year ago but their thoughts are still same. As i say it's a small town. I have just 3 friends. I can't meet or know new people. What can i do? My university years is toooo bad nowadays.

Who cares what they think?

Are you running your life based on what others think of you?

Yes your old self 1,5 year ago was needy and pathetic. Change that, and just stop doing what ever you did in the past.

You don't have to switch places if you don't want to because of some past girl texting this is just ridiculous. Man up, focus on your purpose and change your perspective.

Think of you as the version 2.0. The new you.

 

[CAPSLOCK BANDIT]

Fearlessness has become something to be ridiculed instead of celebrated

 

[nelysses]

When they think you are a "player" ignore it. Its a shyt test.
Own your sexuality OP. Its better to be a puzzy lover then a nice guy.
Just watch your behavior and calibrate how you come on.
No need to move. Agree and amplify this nonesense.

Who cares what they think?

Are you running your life based on what others think of you?

Yes your old self 1,5 year ago was needy and pathetic. Change that, and just stop doing what ever you did in the past.

You don't have to switch places if you don't want to because of some past girl texting this is just ridiculous. Man up, focus on your purpose and change your perspective.

Think of you as the version 2.0. The new you.

Guys i see one of my messages(girl take ss)
I messages her what she dressed on that day, what she drank, where she sit in Classroom(university), who was with her...
To it was so embarrassing. I died because of cringe
So now I'm not doing that ****. Same girl said me you were like psycho but you are normal now, you changed so much.

Im still trying to fix me. Losing weights and reducing masturbation.
It's me 2.0 i know. But they aren't talk to me
Actually it isn't a problem for me but im in a small town so there isn't anywhere except cafes to know(or meet, my English is bad). I dont have a social environment. Just have male 4 5 friends. No females in my life..

 

[manfrombelow]

At the age of 20, OP still has a long way to go, and a long time to live.

Maybe consider moving to a different city/location/school where nobody knows you, as suggested by @Serenity?