"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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all of my best friends just got into relationships. now what?

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Within the past couple months, all of my closest friends (aka the guys I've known since high school that I would go out and party with and have a good time with) got into relationships. So now instead of going out and partying/drinking, they're all *****whipped and just wanna hang out with their girls. What the hell do I do now? Find new friends? I'm currently somewhat seeing someone, but it's nothing serious nor do I know if it will even become anything. I kinda feel like I'm losing my closest friends.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Try to make new friends. I have lost all my closest friends in the last couple of years. Haven't been able to make any new real friends, just people that are only interested in what I can offer them. That's part of the reason a bunch of guys I know won't hang with me, they are into PU and because I suck they don't want to hang with me.
 
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Nothing should change. I guess you'll have to go to parties and stuff on your own, but you'll meet cool people. If a whole bunch of your friends recently started relationships I bet that either

a) Some will break up quickly
or
b) The "honeymoon" phase will end eventually and they'll have a more balanced life between friends and their girlfriend.

So keep going out and having a good time.
 
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