"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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all of my best friends just got into relationships. now what?

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Within the past couple months, all of my closest friends (aka the guys I've known since high school that I would go out and party with and have a good time with) got into relationships. So now instead of going out and partying/drinking, they're all *****whipped and just wanna hang out with their girls. What the hell do I do now? Find new friends? I'm currently somewhat seeing someone, but it's nothing serious nor do I know if it will even become anything. I kinda feel like I'm losing my closest friends.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Try to make new friends. I have lost all my closest friends in the last couple of years. Haven't been able to make any new real friends, just people that are only interested in what I can offer them. That's part of the reason a bunch of guys I know won't hang with me, they are into PU and because I suck they don't want to hang with me.
 
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Nothing should change. I guess you'll have to go to parties and stuff on your own, but you'll meet cool people. If a whole bunch of your friends recently started relationships I bet that either

a) Some will break up quickly
or
b) The "honeymoon" phase will end eventually and they'll have a more balanced life between friends and their girlfriend.

So keep going out and having a good time.
 
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