"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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You people are all out of your mind or really dumb.


I am sorry but how the hell can anyone look up to this drag queen. That show was the most scripted thing I've ever seen in my life.

There's no live real actual proof of Mystery scoring with a hottie. He only makes money cause fools like you make him rich.


Pathetic.....
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Jayer said:
You people are all out of your mind or really dumb.


I am sorry but how the hell can anyone look up to this drag queen. That show was the most scripted thing I've ever seen in my life.

There's no live real actual proof of Mystery scoring with a hottie. He only makes money cause fools like you make him rich.

Pathetic.....
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Nah I think you're just an idiot, Mystery has produced some pretty damn good stuff. The venusian arts handbook was very good, maybe you should watch some of his videos. Not all guys are naturally social, some have to learn it intellectually, and the venusian arts and canned material let guys whose lives have been ****ed up get back their lives back on track, once they learn how to socialize the can remove the training wheels and they don't need any method, because they've gained enough experience.

Also who says many of mysteries followers paid anything? The net is wild and free you know :p
 
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I partially agree with Jayer, unless your personal style and vibe is that of an attention-hungry, sexually ambiguous performing monkey, then you may want to choose a different role model.

Work with what you got people. Stop trying to be something you're not!
 
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But . . .but . . . I love Mystery's method. How can you say such awful hurtful things about my hero. I think im gonna . . . . cry :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I think his methods are definately a very good start.
Just don't carboncopy his routines,
and don't dress like a dragqueen!
 
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That show was the most scripted thing I've ever seen in my life.
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Maybe it was, maybe not. It doesn't need to be "scripted" for it to be manipulated though. You just show the "positive" footage and throw away the rest of the way crap and voila, the result is pretty much the same.

There's no live real actual proof of Mystery scoring with a hottie. He only makes money cause fools like you make him rich.
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Maybe he scores hotties maybe he doesn't. And yes, he makes money off desperate guys who will only questionably benefit from his teachings.

But... the stuff does make sense. (And I haven't paid him a dime to read it.. so who's the sucker?) When I think of a lot of the hookups I've done in the past, I wasn't consciously aware of it at the time, but they did consist of the outline of the steps in mystery's work. His making stuff more explicit has only helped me get a better grasp of it. No harm here.

As for the "drag" or whatever... well, come on man... you sound smart enough to realize that the core parts of a person's message aren't really changed just because the person has some personality quirks; the message either stands up on its own or it doesn't. In mystery's case, he may be a complete twit, but he still makes a lot of sense.
 
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Jayer said:
You people are all out of your mind or really dumb.


I am sorry but how the hell can anyone look up to this drag queen. That show was the most scripted thing I've ever seen in my life.

There's no live real actual proof of Mystery scoring with a hottie. He only makes money cause fools like you make him rich.


Pathetic.....
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Is that it? I was expecting more..... :flowers:
 
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Jayer said:
You people are all out of your mind or really dumb.


I am sorry but how the hell can anyone look up to this drag queen. That show was the most scripted thing I've ever seen in my life.

There's no live real actual proof of Mystery scoring with a hottie. He only makes money cause fools like you make him rich.


Pathetic.....
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lol way too many people are caught up in Mystery Method. I definitely don't agree with a lot of what he says but the method obviously works, that's why so many people use it.
 
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But . . .but . . . I love Mystery's method. How can you say such awful hurtful things about my hero. I think im gonna . . . . cry :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry:
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The truth is people who are bagging on mystery have never had to struggle to learn how to interact with people.. Those who have seen mystery or heard him talk in his videos, etc, know mystery has done a lot of great social analysis to bring guys into the social world where before they couldn't even talk to regular people or make friends (at alll). Especially you haven't been socialized from your upbringing very well, if at all.

Many parents in this world and schools just suck, and many a boy gets his ego and identity bruised and twisted to hell in ZOO's we call schools and the zoo we call society.
 
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