"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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As I have mentioned, I am up in Boston for grad school. The school I go to is an all girl undergrad and co-ed grad. Nonetheless, my grad program for new students is still 80% women.

Here is the sad part: Most of the women on campus and in my program are not very attractive looking. I am talking homely looking, overweight, grungy (nose rings and all) or just plain butch looking. I am just wondering how many of the girls on campus are male haters or are lesbian ( I think the percentage might be high)

The ratio is great walking around campus, I just get the vibe most of those girls do not like guys. If anyone has or has had a similiar experience, I am all ears.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Good to see you got out of the nest. Too bad about the dyke nest. Lots of good looking girls over at BU. Try hanging out at BU library/campus to study. If anyone asks tell 'em you want to study with a view of the Charles.

btw, what part of town are you in? Lots of hotties around cleveland circle.
 

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The BU library is legendary.

As for the all-girl colleges, there are two stereotypes: the butch, man-hating freaks and the chicks who haven't seen a guy in weeks (easy scoring opportunities). The ones that get exported to the city are usually the latter. Use only sparingly to get your confidence back up, otherwise they'll lose their novelty.
 

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Originally posted by Snatchmaster
Good to see you got out of the nest. Too bad about the dyke nest. Lots of good looking girls over at BU. Try hanging out at BU library/campus to study. If anyone asks tell 'em you want to study with a view of the Charles.

btw, what part of town are you in? Lots of hotties around cleveland circle.
Well, I actually live in Marlborough, MA. My College is in the BackBay, Fens area. Northeastern U is not too far, but man this weather blows.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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This is interesting guys. I should be up in the area soon.
 
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