all excited, but then there's a lot of resistance

[chancer]

I was tallking to this girl on the phone and we started talking about sex and all. So we were both excited. She caught me by supprise when we went out, cause I've never seen her all dressed up. But the vibe was kinda weird. It was like she didn't want me to look at her or something... any opportunity to try and kiss her would have been forced. And even when I looked at her she would be like what? I don't think i was staring, but even if I was, wouldn't you think she'd give me some slack? lol. Anyway, I don't think we're gonna go out again. She gets me all excited to see her and then when i'm there, there's a lot of resistance. I think i'm going mad thinking about her.

 

[danielzxc]

It's hard to tell from you've just written there, but it could be that she's just nervous around you... then again, it could have been a lot of other things. Need more info really.

What did u say when she goes "what" when u were looking at her?

If you were talking about sex with her on the phone, and she cam out with you, she sounds pretty interested. I would be VERY surprised if she went out with you without any intention of doing anything.

 

[Interceptor]

It might be hitting her that her outrageous behavior is biting her in the ass.
She may have low self esteem is experimenting with her sexual side with you.
Of course, being a guy, you look and took the bait.
Now she;s uncomfortable with just how far she went and she may be regretting it.
Next time (if there is a next time) be more aware of your body language and eye contact.
You probably were staring.
Don't do it.
Move with self assuredness and confidence.
Say " You look fabulous tonight, babe." That's it. Grab her hand and walk proudly with her.
Don't freak out about others looking at her, and exercise self control with her.
No grabass for a while.
If you feel uncomfortable, she will start to feel more uconfortable.
Don't add to the tension.
If you;re a funny guy, NOW is the time to be a little witty, and use a joke or two. Don't be a clown or stand up comedian. Just let your funny side out once in a while in measured doses.

Good luck.