"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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All boys school

Hendrix

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Any of you Don Juans go to an All boys high school? I'm originally from California but here in Saint Louis everybody knows no different than single sex schools, which is total bull**** in my own mind. I've been going to one for my freshmen year of high school, the Christian Brothers College. I despise it and regret ever stepping foot again on this midwest ground, where racism thrives. I hate to burden you all but my dad lives in northern california and i despise my mom for making me live and go to school here where her and her family is from, meanwhile she marries a man who is a southern california native and doesn't plan on moving back here and who has a business in long beach to run and my mom is there right now and im being "watched" by my grandparents because she is such a hippocrit. Thanks for reading/responding. You'd understand where I'm coming from if youve ever been to Saint Louis, it gives young men the fear of the Sack -Hunter S. Thompson
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Bling

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First off, I shouldn't assume things.


Second off, don't make what people from Missouri make you think all white people (and Rednecks as wel) are racist.


Third off, You got to play with the cards you're dealt. - Unknown
 
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that does suck, but there are other ways to meet girls. but it will require a lot more confidence in a non-school envirnment.
 

Hendrix

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When you assume..you make an ass out of you and me.:D I'm whiter than sunshine. Sorry for making that post so depressing, I had to vent. By the way, chill, I'm also in Northern California, I live in Redding, where are you?
 
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