All Boy's School - Need Advice

[cw92]

Ok so this is my first post here, and I have read around looking at alot of the posts, and I just wanted to know if any DJ's out there could help me out with my situtation.

As you can see from the title I go to an all Boy's school, but i have found a girl. She goes to an all girl's school as well. Now i was actually able to get her with a bit of (weak, unpracticed) kino, as it were but obviously thats not the way to go. Using this i was able to make out with her, for my first kiss! I screwed myself by doing texting conversations, which are extremely boring, and I have been recently trying to call her and limit all texting, but its been tough.

Anyway here is the problem, i honestly was going to ask her out tonight, but after reading the numerous posts on the subject, I opted no to, and Im glad I did. But everything seems a little boring now and i really want to be in a relationship with her, but im tired of being an AFC, its been like this since freshman year and with a little help from this site i am so close to getting a girlfriend.

Should I buy her a Christmas present? We are not in a realtionship but i think i should but i dont want to come off AFCish. She is a cheerleader (score.) and i was thinking of getting her like a cheerleader teddy bear or something but again that looming thought of AFC comes back to haunt me. We have been dating i guess for a month. but as we dont see each other everyday its more like weekend meetings.

What would you all recommend? for the present? or if i should get her one at all.

 

[jeffthechef]

don't overanalyze...
this is fukin christmas...and she's not a stranger...i dont c why you can't get her a gift

just dont buy something that costs a billion dollars

buying gifts only becomes afc if you buy her expensive or many gifts and at a constant rate

christmas/valentines/anniversary/birthday
sure why not

 

[cw92]

don't overanalyze...
this is fukin christmas...and she's not a stranger...i dont c why you can't get her a gift

just dont buy something that costs a billion dollars

buying gifts only becomes afc if you buy her expensive or many gifts and at a constant rate

christmas/valentines/anniversary/birthday
sure why not

yeah your right, its just i havent really had any interest from ANY girls in my life, its kind of hard not to over analyze but ill try my best to relax. \

Thanks a ton for the advice. So do you think the teddy bear idea was good?

 

[daygameguy]

Whatever you gift her, will make her think of you everytime she sees it.

So teddy bear = YOU as teddy bear = AFC.

Sexy Christmas Lingerie = YOU as sexual = someone she can orgasm thinking of.

 

[cw92]

Whatever you gift her, will make her think of you everytime she sees it.

So teddy bear = YOU as teddy bear = AFC.

Sexy Christmas Lingerie = YOU as sexual = someone she can orgasm thinking of.

i see where your coming from, but... Lingerie for a 16 yr old girl..seems a bit much doesnt it?

 

[intrextrovert]

Yes, it is very much unless you have some kind of inside joke about it.

Get her something SMALL and funny, like something you see and are like oh haha and makes you think of her.

 

[cw92]

Yes, it is very much unless you have some kind of inside joke about it.

Get her something SMALL and funny, like something you see and are like oh haha and makes you think of her.

Thats a great idea, ill be going out tomorrow and if i see something ill pick it up for her. I wont get the bear like i was thinking, but she is going to be home alone I think tomorrow and tuesday, any tips on getting myself invited over there?

I really think she would but, its just kind of weird for me to do it.

(My parents are home all this week, so i cant bring her over, but they wont question me going to her house that much.)

 

[AlexParadox]

good job on not "asking her out".

but the thing i dont understand is what does going to an all boys school have to do with anything? i go to a "traditional school" which is basically a small school with a rigid uniform system that has a focus on preping students on going to university (aka= big nerd school lol!), the girls at my school are not even worth mentioning.
But my point is: its not an excuse for anything.

do you have problems meeting up with girls? is that the reason for mentioning your school "type" ?

 

[cw92]

good job on not "asking her out".

but the thing i dont understand is what does going to an all boys school have to do with anything? i go to a "traditional school" which is basically a small school with a rigid uniform system that has a focus on preping students on going to university (aka= big nerd school lol!), the girls at my school are not even worth mentioning.
But my point is: its not an excuse for anything.

do you have problems meeting up with girls? is that the reason for mentioning your school "type" ?

yeah thats why i mentioned it, its kind of hard for me to meet people

its like the only time i really see girls, is like randomly at the mall so its kind ofhard to me to build social skills

again not an excuse, its just tough, and im sure you must have felt similar with your school.

 

[AlexParadox]

Some tips for you from experience on expanding your circle.

-I branch out alot by hanging out with my sociable school friends outside of school, soon your friend will probably start to introduce you to some of his "out of school friends".

If hes a decent looking guy, he will have some girl friends of his own that could potentially be decent looking.

(in a blunt, harsh way)
Your using your friend to help break the ice into other groups of people they know.


-I find the way i meet lots of new girls is to just generally make friends with decent looking girls from out of school. by hanging out with them you get introduced to some of her girlfriends, or even better you get invited to a party she is hosting and she will introduce you to everyone. Which is excellent way to instantly gain some kind of connection with any cuties there!

-Basically develop a "mafia mindset". Find people that are popular (leaders, alpha males + females), get to know them.
These people will help you get to know lots of different people, OR people will break ice with you with "hey you know alpha male x".

know people that "know people".

as a guy who in middle school that wasnt too outgoing with getting to know people, it was tough to break out of that shell and start branching out. This process accelerated when i got to know some of these top dogs that EVERYONE knows (generally they are the partiers, social drinkers, or generally good looking outgoing people). I would go to partys with them and would get introduced to every gorgeous bombshell and all the "cool guys" (who i only maintain a talking relationship to gain approval to go after "their" girls lol)

hope that helps bro :rockon:

 

[cw92]

Some tips for you from experience on expanding your circle.

-I branch out alot by hanging out with my sociable school friends outside of school, soon your friend will probably start to introduce you to some of his "out of school friends".

If hes a decent looking guy, he will have some girl friends of his own that could potentially be decent looking.

(in a blunt, harsh way)
Your using your friend to help break the ice into other groups of people they know.


-I find the way i meet lots of new girls is to just generally make friends with decent looking girls from out of school. by hanging out with them you get introduced to some of her girlfriends, or even better you get invited to a party she is hosting and she will introduce you to everyone. Which is excellent way to instantly gain some kind of connection with any cuties there!

-Basically develop a "mafia mindset". Find people that are popular (leaders, alpha males + females), get to know them.
These people will help you get to know lots of different people, OR people will break ice with you with "hey you know alpha male x".

know people that "know people".

as a guy who in middle school that wasnt too outgoing with getting to know people, it was tough to break out of that shell and start branching out. This process accelerated when i got to know some of these top dogs that EVERYONE knows (generally they are the partiers, social drinkers, or generally good looking outgoing people). I would go to partys with them and would get introduced to every gorgeous bombshell and all the "cool guys" (who i only maintain a talking relationship to gain approval to go after "their" girls lol)

hope that helps bro :rockon:

You have just described my situation and found a perfect solution to it, I kind of did use the Alpha Male thing to meet the girl im currently involved with. I think she really likes me, its just getting her a present, i have no idea what to do.

Thank you so much dude! All the girls i know in high school have been introduced to me mainly by 2 of my friends, who are actually very popular.

So now its present time =/ im trying not to over analyze but its hard.

 

[DJVladdy]

I just wanna say that I know an all-boys school not far from me...

let me just say that all those boys in all boy school got more pyssy than boys from all the other MIXED-sex high schools in central Massachusetts COMBINED.

lol funny isnt it?

 

[cw92]

I just wanna say that I know an all-boys school not far from me...

let me just say that all those boys in all boy school got more pyssy than boys from all the other MIXED-sex high schools in central Massachusetts COMBINED.

lol funny isnt it?

i cant really argue with that, there are definately some kids who get alot of girls at my school

and obviously im not one of them atm, its just hard meeting people, once ive done that im usually ok with the rest