"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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All aspects of my life are very successfull except women..

gimmeyofonenumba

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My income will be in the 6 figures this year. I have the car, nice place,etc. Even looking at an even nicer home. I'm active in volunteer groups. Good looking, Awesome shape, tall, muscular. I'll always keep improving. I can just about date any woman I want, and have dated some extremely hot women, but no matter, women are women. I think many people can date for a while, keeping them around is the hard part. When it comes to relationships though and keeping a girl around long term, i have failed every time. Granted a lot if not all of these girls I'm thankful it did not work out. I just look back and realize when I was broke and in college I had a longer and better relationship than I've ever had while experiencing success in my life. It may just be this day in age. I see many of my friends with their partner in life, and little success but myself it is the opposite. It could perhaps be my chip on a shoulder type of mentality after a failed relationship is what fuels my success in other aspects of life.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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You have probably been doing something wrong with woman, you dont have to worry, its a numbers game, you are doing great in life. How long does your relationships last on average?
 

gimmeyofonenumba

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I don't think I've been doing anything wrong with women. Of course theres always room for improvement. I just have a mold a woman needs to fit into and if she doesn't we usually get into a fight or we go our seperate ways, usually 3-4 mos into dating. I think Royal may be right, it's the quality of women.
 

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you have gotten many women before I consider that successful with women
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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