Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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All aspects of my life are very successfull except women..

gimmeyofonenumba

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My income will be in the 6 figures this year. I have the car, nice place,etc. Even looking at an even nicer home. I'm active in volunteer groups. Good looking, Awesome shape, tall, muscular. I'll always keep improving. I can just about date any woman I want, and have dated some extremely hot women, but no matter, women are women. I think many people can date for a while, keeping them around is the hard part. When it comes to relationships though and keeping a girl around long term, i have failed every time. Granted a lot if not all of these girls I'm thankful it did not work out. I just look back and realize when I was broke and in college I had a longer and better relationship than I've ever had while experiencing success in my life. It may just be this day in age. I see many of my friends with their partner in life, and little success but myself it is the opposite. It could perhaps be my chip on a shoulder type of mentality after a failed relationship is what fuels my success in other aspects of life.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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You have probably been doing something wrong with woman, you dont have to worry, its a numbers game, you are doing great in life. How long does your relationships last on average?
 

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I don't think I've been doing anything wrong with women. Of course theres always room for improvement. I just have a mold a woman needs to fit into and if she doesn't we usually get into a fight or we go our seperate ways, usually 3-4 mos into dating. I think Royal may be right, it's the quality of women.
 

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you have gotten many women before I consider that successful with women
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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