backseatjuan
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1. How to last longer?
2. How to go again after and incredible orgasm?
2. How to go again after and incredible orgasm?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
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Generic viagra from SE Asia is less than $1 US per pill. Look for the "double pills" offers on that site.
Generic viagra from SE Asia is less than $1 US per pill. Look for the "double pills" offers on that site.
Anima
Don Juan
I'm interested as well. Preferably naturally without supplements, if possible.
backseatjuan
Banned
I used real viagra and erection is super but it did not make last longer. There is another drug called 'Pregabalin' it makes you lost long long, sometimes even't can't orgasm, but the penis is limp is very hard to get up.
Anima
Don Juan
Viagra doesn't make you last longer, but it shortens your refractory period and makes it much easier to go again. As for that pill, I've had the same experience with a large dose of Adderall.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
Doses of viagra over 100mg make me last longer. I actually find it hard to cvm sometimes, even when I am trying to. Women get offended. Relationships have ended because of this.
logicallefty
Moderator
Same here, especially with a new partner. once I've done the same woman 3-4 times I'm more likely to burst the pipe... but there are never any guarantees...
On the other hand If I happen to be feeling extra horny before a date and suspect I might bust a nut too fast when we hit it, I'll rub one off.. then by the time I'm with her there is no way I'll blow it prematurely..
backseatjuan
Banned
3) How to advance to anal? With my LTR when we fvck, I tried to go in, she said what you doing, it hurts. Not sure if she would go for it. When I asked her, she said she'll kick my butt if I put it in there. I'm thinking of making her cvm, fvcking her, then sticking my finger in, good idea?
Anima
Don Juan
Not every girl is down. You've asked, and she said no. That's that.
parkthebus
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Ignore the above. Women I have been with don't like just anal. Fingering her ass during sex is good. I've had girls who dreaded me ****ing them in the ass actually offer if I stuck my finger in during sex.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
backseatjuan
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4) Girl haven't come in 30 years. Does not come from sex, only if she rubs her **** or someone rubs it. How to make her come from penetration?
parkthebus
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I would suggest swapping between vaginal and ****oral stimulation, don't think it would work though. Best thing is too get a wand vibrator and use that will ****ing her.
Anima
Don Juan
The majority of girls don't finish from vaginal penetration. Cl*t is the sweet spot, and oral is probably the way to go, as suggested by parkthebus.
anal takes very special prep, guys, an enema, so she can relax without embarrassment. coke or novocaine in her butt. coke up her nose. Use a vibrator, get her almost ready to "O" before going into her anally, then use amyl nitrate "popper' to make it happen for her. Be ready yourself, so she does not have to undergo much pounding before you're done. Keep it rare, as in less then once a month. it's really hard on her and you dont want that thing getting "loose".
lots of lube, both on you and up inside of her butt, via a dildo coated with it. start with small one, then try medium sized one. Nice meal, present, etc, are all very much "called for " if you're popping her butt cherry! 
Astroglide is the best lube. use a butt plug in her while the 2 of you are getting nearly to O. Google is your friend, you can find out the answers to almost any question via google
Astroglide is the best lube. use a butt plug in her while the 2 of you are getting nearly to O. Google is your friend, you can find out the answers to almost any question via google"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
The moment you *** usually your whole body is tense. Usually when you let your self go, your breath has become shallower and quicker...
So lasting longer involves removing tension from your body. Practice body scanning where you mentally focus all throughout your body one area at a time. Scanning for tension and then allowing the tension to leave your body...
Your breaths need to be deep and slow. it takes practice in the sack to breath like that but when you focus on your breath you relax your body and your attention is not 100% focused on "oh I'm going to ***"
stop and start method. coming close to cuming....stop for a few seconds and then start back up again. i usually "make some adjustments if I need to do that.
rim her and see if she changes her mind
I was with this black chick during the summer. Small chick really slim. tiny little ass. Looking at it I was thinking there's no way I could have anal with her, I'd probably kill her. I rimmed her and she loved it then I went for the penetration and she took it like a champion. said to me after "wow I didn't think I'd like it so much" no enema, no lub....only my saliva......(granted she was a weed smoker.....so I guess after the weed and red wine and cumming she was relaxed.
That being said another chick that I was seeing told me directly she loved anal but she didn't like rimming at all.