Last night ended up heading out with this girl and her friends... well i ended up drinking alittle to much, so did she. Go back to her place and i ended up ****ing her without a rubber.....didnt shoot inside her. Now i have always worn rubbers in the past and have always been scared to death of std's but this one **** up has me really worried....this girl for a brief background has been in 2-3 ltrs in the past and just recently her and her bf of 4 years ended their engagement.... you guys think i should be losing sleep over this and should i get tested ?
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Centaurion
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Don't worry, just go and get tested.
DonJuanMonk
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OMG, stupid man. I hope this will be a real good lesson. You see it's not worth it after you think about it, god damn dude.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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well.. what kind of girl is she? how EASY was it to bang her? did you put in work before? are you dating this chick? --- you might have the DJ force behind you - but if this chick likes fvcking, she's probably had many an experience similar to this one... And what the hell - if you can bang this chick without a rubber, and she doesn't seem too bothered by it... what the hell is she thinking? depending on your knowledge of eachother, she in theory SHOULD be just as skeptical of your sexual endeavors as you are of hers... it's much easier for women to get std's in many cases...
I only hit the flesh if I'm in a serious LTR - and I really trust her.
if you barely know a chick and she wants to bang you in the flesh.. run away. :woo:
I only hit the flesh if I'm in a serious LTR - and I really trust her.
if you barely know a chick and she wants to bang you in the flesh.. run away. :woo:
yesOriginally posted by heater528
you guys think i should be losing sleep over this and should i get tested ?
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I've busted in a chic many times and she didn't get pregnant.
My only pregnancy came aftyer I broke up with my psycho girlfriend and she calls me up saying she preg with my kid. I said if you wanna have it fine, I don't, but I'm gonna get it tested to see if it's mine.
Guess what? She didn't have the kid.
My only pregnancy came aftyer I broke up with my psycho girlfriend and she calls me up saying she preg with my kid. I said if you wanna have it fine, I don't, but I'm gonna get it tested to see if it's mine.
Guess what? She didn't have the kid.
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Thank you sir! I'm getting busted on here from Lost in Translation for not banging some internet slut that came over to my house after our first date. We made out but that's as far as I took it. She she emails me saying I'm not the right guy for her. LIT says it's because I didn't bang her. Screw that... bang a girl I don't even know her last name? Are you guys THAT f'ing horny??Originally posted by dipset_mafia
well.. what kind of girl is she? how EASY was it to bang her? did you put in work before? are you dating this chick? --- you might have the DJ force behind you - but if this chick likes fvcking, she's probably had many an experience similar to this one... And what the hell - if you can bang this chick without a rubber, and she doesn't seem too bothered by it... what the hell is she thinking? depending on your knowledge of eachother, she in theory SHOULD be just as skeptical of your sexual endeavors as you are of hers... it's much easier for women to get std's in many cases...
I only hit the flesh if I'm in a serious LTR - and I really trust her.
if you barely know a chick and she wants to bang you in the flesh.. run away. :woo:
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I agree... it was a dumb move on my part... Ive made this mistake once in 25 years and im nervous as hell about it... The chick has been in LTRs for the past 5 years. It was pretty easy to bang her, which made me wonder this morning when i woke up. Ive always been the one in our group yelling at my friends when they do stupid **** like this
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Originally posted by heater528
I agree... it was a dumb move on my part... Ive made this mistake once in 25 years and im nervous as hell about it... The chick has been in LTRs for the past 5 years. It was pretty easy to bang her, which made me wonder this morning when i woke up. Ive always been the one in our group yelling at my friends when they do stupid **** like this
dude your fine dont worry about it .. I've made the same mistake plenty of times and I'm clean as can be... I've raw dogged chics, busted in them, all that. Including some latina ho that I shagged on the first date. God knows where she had been. They never got preg and I've been tesated to be clean. But I did worry a hell of alot the next day... Trust me, you're good. Just don't do it again lol.
diablo
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H&F...
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Cam'ron - Girls [verse 3]
Females better twirl on yours, better curl on yours /
Cause I swirl off shores (and then what?) come back to a pearl golf course/
(who you?) I'm corrupt, cause girls all wh0res and the world is yours/
honey sip sizurp with a pearl ofcourse/
And you know I'm in the buildin mister, with the olsen twins, or the hilton sisters/
And I haul em there, to the hilton mister/
I milked e'm, I killed em', you quilt her, you missed her (missed her?)/
You held her, you kissed her/
You felt all the blisters, melt on your whiskers
girls (what they want?) wanna have fun, girls, just wanna have fun...
Females better twirl on yours, better curl on yours /
Cause I swirl off shores (and then what?) come back to a pearl golf course/
(who you?) I'm corrupt, cause girls all wh0res and the world is yours/
honey sip sizurp with a pearl ofcourse/
And you know I'm in the buildin mister, with the olsen twins, or the hilton sisters/
And I haul em there, to the hilton mister/
I milked e'm, I killed em', you quilt her, you missed her (missed her?)/
You held her, you kissed her/
You felt all the blisters, melt on your whiskers
girls (what they want?) wanna have fun, girls, just wanna have fun...
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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I suggest you go to a sexual health clinic.
have you ever been tested before?
they will ask you a series of questions to determine your risk for certain VD's - then determine which tests are necessary.
one of these sexual health clinics are probably somewhere in your city... AVOID, AVOID AT ALL COSTS the SWAB TEST.. I'm serious.. if you don't have any "discharge" make sure they know! never say "I don't know," or "I'm not sure" the swab test is the most painful thing i've ever had to endure.. its the test for ghonorrea.. it was the ultimate punishment for being a slut
good luck,
have you ever been tested before?
they will ask you a series of questions to determine your risk for certain VD's - then determine which tests are necessary.
one of these sexual health clinics are probably somewhere in your city... AVOID, AVOID AT ALL COSTS the SWAB TEST.. I'm serious.. if you don't have any "discharge" make sure they know! never say "I don't know," or "I'm not sure" the swab test is the most painful thing i've ever had to endure.. its the test for ghonorrea.. it was the ultimate punishment for being a slut
good luck,
Centaurion
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bahahah is that the one where the shove a q-tip up your ****?
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Yes.Originally posted by Centaurion
bahahah is that the one where the shove a q-tip up your ****?