"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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alittle worried about something...please help!

Salduchi1785

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alot of time when i have sex with my girlfriend, i have problems getting off because i cant feel anything because of the condom, so i role it up half way sometimes or take it off near the end and then pull out when im about to ***. what i noticed when i took the condom off was that my penis was all wet. im not sure if the wetness is my girlfriends wetness or precum. i assume is her, but i rather be sure. and if it is her, how would hey wetness get under the condom?

also, what are the chances of getting a girl pregnet if you have sex without a condom and pull out before you ***?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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sk24iam

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If you know your girl doesn't ahve any std's you could suggest to her going on birth control.
 

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There's special condoms that are quite slim to feel the pvssy.

Theres's a slim chance of your sperm getting outside even BEFORE ejaculation.

Find a better condom product.
 

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well theres always the "pre ***" im really not sure how effective this so called pre *** is at getting a girl pregnant, but if you know the girl youre sleeping with and you know she doesnt have nasty **** that can crawl on your ****, tell her to get on the pill so yall can have sex without a condom and even then *** outside of her just in case.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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You can get a girl pregnant on pre ***. If you don't have her on the pill, I highly suggest not ****ing her without a rubber.
 

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Since all it takes is a single sperm to get a girl pregnant, nobody here can give you the odds on whether she would be or not. Precum can make her pregnant just as surely as normal *** - you're playing Russian roulette, only with hundreds of thousands of dollars in child support over the 18 years you'd be fiscally responsible.

I hate to be rude, but from the sounds of it you might want to hold off on having sex for a while until you further yourself in areas such as responsibility, education, and intelligence. Using a condom in any manner other than the one it is intended for is not intelligent. Neither is using the "pulling out" metod. The coherence (or lack thereof) in your post speaks for either a lack of education or a deliberate disregard for the proper usage of the English language. The responsibility part should speak for itself - unless you feel that you're ready to raise a child of your own?
 

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The wetness on the condom is called "lubrication", genius.
 

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Originally posted by Giovanni Casanova
The wetness on the condom is called "lubrication", genius.
He's talking about fluid on the inside.

Could be sweat, cvm, pre-cvm, vaginal lubrication, or any combination.

Don't have sex without using a condom or other birth control.

Pre-cvm can contain sperm. You can also ejaculate without the sensation of an orgasm.


Don't we fund sex ed any more in the U.S.?

:(
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Giovanni Casanova

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Originally posted by whistler
He's talking about fluid on the inside.
Oh, I didn't realize he was talking about one of those magical condoms where the lube/spermicide is only on the OUTSIDE of the condom and not the inside.
 

whistler

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Originally posted by Giovanni Casanova
Oh, I didn't realize he was talking about one of those magical condoms where the lube/spermicide is only on the OUTSIDE of the condom and not the inside.
Touche LOL

My assumption was that the fluid was susbstantial and not noticeable at first.

Yeah, if you're using lubricated condoms... :)
That probably explains it.

Regardless, don't have sex without one.
 

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Originally posted by Salduchi1785
so lurbricated condoms have lube inside them?
by smaller condoms.

it should fit like a glove, not like a pair of track suit pants.
 

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Study sex before having sex!

Originally posted by Salduchi1785
so lurbricated condoms have lube inside them?
Dude... you are 19 years old, and you have less knowledge about this stuff than what my 13 year old brother does. You are 19, in a relationship, HAVING SEX, and you don’t know this sh!t? What is the matter with you? The best advice me, or anyone here could give you right now, is to get urself some books, or research it on the internet, and LEARN all that there is to learn about sex, childbirth, responsibility, sperm, pregnancy, etc.

Bottom line... you should be responsible enough to expand your very limited knowledge in this area, and as diablo said, maybe stop having sex, until you actually KNOW what u are doing, because one of these days you might find yourself saving up for child support.

I took the liberty to find you some useful sites which I am hoping you will use to your benefit.

Condoms

Safe Sex

Are you ready for this? (Pregnancy)

Teen Pregnancy (1)

Teen Pregnancy (2)

Sperm

RESPONSIBLE sex


Knock yourself out.


Laterz...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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priceless aqua!
 
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