"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

ALEX-TIO? (Latin heritage input needed)

U

unorthodox

Banned
Joined
Sep 15, 2006
Messages
221
Reaction score
0
What does it mean when latin girl calls you ALEX-TIO. That's your first name, and then that -TIO at the end? She said blah blah greeted me. ALEX-TIO. :)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

T

tr0ublemaker

Don Juan
Joined
Sep 30, 2006
Messages
115
Reaction score
0
Location
Virginia
tio means uncle in spanish

so alex tio means uncle alex
 
S

SamePendo

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 30, 2003
Messages
2,393
Reaction score
14
Location
At home
It means ****. It's like saying Alex uncle. They should say tio-alex.

Isn't it alex-ito? "ito" is a diminutive term that in some latin countries is used not as a diminutive per se, but to show . . . caring for that person... like the ending "gy" in doggy.
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top