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You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

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Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Alcohol is the enemy! Drunkin calls/Texting!

Canadiandon

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Alright the other night I let my guard down after drinking and getting drunk I called a girl at around 11pm asked her if I can sleep over and called her a b1tch because she said no. I'm always on point as a don yeah I'm not perfect but I do really really well with the ladies because I actually follow the advice given to me by fellow players and it works. But last night I fkd a good thing up because I let my guard down because of drinking. Has this happened to you guys? Tell us some stories where you messed up a good thing with a lady because of drinking. I need to kick alcohol or moderate myself how do you guys do it?
 

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When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

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Effington

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Friends don't let friends dial drunk.

A few years back, I got absolutely trashed at an Eric Clapton concert with my friends. I was pretty obnoxious when my girlfriend called, telling her to get off my back, I'm not coming home tonight, blah blah blah. On the way back, I apparently had some monologue where I was asking if it was OK to be into another girl even if I had a girlfriend (I was belligerent at this point), and they were like, that's understandable. While I thought I was being coy by being vague, I was inspired to call up the said girl and meet her out at the bar on the way back. It was sooo obvious. Anyway, I went home with her that night, but was so wasted that I passed out on her couch when we got there. I think I fell asleep in her car too, but she woke me up.

The girl was also friends with my friends and spread the fun story, which was not exactly flattering, although it was kinda funny. I ended up breaking up with the girlfriend soon after (as I didn't have any feelings for her anyway) but things never worked out with the other girl.

It was my first Clapton concert and I'm a die-hard fan, and the girl I was with convinced me to drink very heavily in the parking lot because we didn't want $8 beers in the venue...so it was a disaster waiting to happen.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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There was a time where I'd drink every day. Thank god I stopped that sh!t. But yeah I been there and done that. Girlfriends would threaten to leave me cause of how I act when I'm drunk. Mainly cause I would get angry and fight with them about stupid things.

Anyways, know your limit and save it for the weekends.
 
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I.A.F.Y.B. said:
There was a time where I'd drink every day. Thank god I stopped that sh!t. But yeah I been there and done that. Girlfriends would threaten to leave me cause of how I act when I'm drunk. Mainly cause I would get angry and fight with them about stupid things.

Anyways, know your limit and save it for the weekends.
Yeah don't ever drink heavily in front of a woman. I am only drinking on the weekends now and never with a woman.

My last 2 girlfriends left me because I drank too much. It's a DJ killer say no to booze.
 

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My Name is Nobody said:
Yeah don't ever drink heavily in front of a woman. I am only drinking on the weekends now and never with a woman.

My last 2 girlfriends left me because I drank too much. It's a DJ killer say no to booze.
Yup, No one likes a drunk. Unless its another drunk.... :crazy:
 

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