"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

Alcohol is the enemy! Drunkin calls/Texting!

Canadiandon

Don Juan
Joined
May 15, 2004
Messages
69
Reaction score
0
Age
51
Location
T.dot
Alright the other night I let my guard down after drinking and getting drunk I called a girl at around 11pm asked her if I can sleep over and called her a b1tch because she said no. I'm always on point as a don yeah I'm not perfect but I do really really well with the ladies because I actually follow the advice given to me by fellow players and it works. But last night I fkd a good thing up because I let my guard down because of drinking. Has this happened to you guys? Tell us some stories where you messed up a good thing with a lady because of drinking. I need to kick alcohol or moderate myself how do you guys do it?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

Read more...

Effington

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 26, 2007
Messages
627
Reaction score
4
Friends don't let friends dial drunk.

A few years back, I got absolutely trashed at an Eric Clapton concert with my friends. I was pretty obnoxious when my girlfriend called, telling her to get off my back, I'm not coming home tonight, blah blah blah. On the way back, I apparently had some monologue where I was asking if it was OK to be into another girl even if I had a girlfriend (I was belligerent at this point), and they were like, that's understandable. While I thought I was being coy by being vague, I was inspired to call up the said girl and meet her out at the bar on the way back. It was sooo obvious. Anyway, I went home with her that night, but was so wasted that I passed out on her couch when we got there. I think I fell asleep in her car too, but she woke me up.

The girl was also friends with my friends and spread the fun story, which was not exactly flattering, although it was kinda funny. I ended up breaking up with the girlfriend soon after (as I didn't have any feelings for her anyway) but things never worked out with the other girl.

It was my first Clapton concert and I'm a die-hard fan, and the girl I was with convinced me to drink very heavily in the parking lot because we didn't want $8 beers in the venue...so it was a disaster waiting to happen.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 18, 2007
Messages
2,051
Reaction score
21
Location
USA
There was a time where I'd drink every day. Thank god I stopped that sh!t. But yeah I been there and done that. Girlfriends would threaten to leave me cause of how I act when I'm drunk. Mainly cause I would get angry and fight with them about stupid things.

Anyways, know your limit and save it for the weekends.
 
Joined
Mar 12, 2007
Messages
2,153
Reaction score
13
I.A.F.Y.B. said:
There was a time where I'd drink every day. Thank god I stopped that sh!t. But yeah I been there and done that. Girlfriends would threaten to leave me cause of how I act when I'm drunk. Mainly cause I would get angry and fight with them about stupid things.

Anyways, know your limit and save it for the weekends.
Yeah don't ever drink heavily in front of a woman. I am only drinking on the weekends now and never with a woman.

My last 2 girlfriends left me because I drank too much. It's a DJ killer say no to booze.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 18, 2007
Messages
2,051
Reaction score
21
Location
USA
My Name is Nobody said:
Yeah don't ever drink heavily in front of a woman. I am only drinking on the weekends now and never with a woman.

My last 2 girlfriends left me because I drank too much. It's a DJ killer say no to booze.
Yup, No one likes a drunk. Unless its another drunk.... :crazy:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

Top