"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

Read more...

Alcohol having undesired effects

S

Slayer

New Member
Joined
Nov 26, 2011
Messages
5
Reaction score
0
Location
Jersey
So I went out the other night after a long day and long week (had to work thanksgiving) and did about 7 or so shots of patron before going out. Unfortunately the alcohol didnt have the effect I desired. I found myself lacking motivation and just general apathy.

I never know what effect it is going to have on me. Sometimes it will make me totally relaxed and think everything is funny. Sometimes it will amp me up and go into a excited frenzy type state. Other times I will be tense and have a short temper. The worst is when it makes me depressed and puts me in the "poor me" frame of mind. The first two are ok but the last two are awful but I never know when which will show up.

I dont have a drinking problem and truly want to make the most out of every time I am going out. Anyone else notice this? Jack Daniels and Tequila while I love both they seem to make me either very angry/aggressive or depressed. Beer relaxes me, vodka makes everything a big blur.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

B

backbreaker

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 24, 2002
Messages
11,546
Reaction score
572
Location
monrovia, CA
Slayer said:
So I went out the other night after a long day and long week (had to work thanksgiving) and did about 7 or so shots of patron before going out. Unfortunately the alcohol didnt have the effect I desired. I found myself lacking motivation and just general apathy.

I never know what effect it is going to have on me. Sometimes it will make me totally relaxed and think everything is funny. Sometimes it will amp me up and go into a excited frenzy type state. Other times I will be tense and have a short temper. The worst is when it makes me depressed and puts me in the "poor me" frame of mind. The first two are ok but the last two are awful but I never know when which will show up.

I dont have a drinking problem and truly want to make the most out of every time I am going out. Anyone else notice this? Jack Daniels and Tequila while I love both they seem to make me either very angry/aggressive or depressed. Beer relaxes me, vodka makes everything a big blur.
Click to expand...
well alcohol by definition is a depressant.
 
Huffman

Huffman

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 29, 2007
Messages
1,499
Reaction score
166
Slayer said:
Alcohol having undesired effects
Click to expand...
News at 11 ;)

Anyway these days I find alcohol to not have any effect on me at all, except that I get slow and stupid of course.

I used to say it increases my courage and makes me more open, but not so anymore. Now, either I'm feeling good or I'm uptight from the start, but alcohol doesn't make me relax anymore. Guess that's good.
 
D

DJLondoner

Don Juan
Joined
Oct 26, 2011
Messages
27
Reaction score
0
Location
London
I had someone tell me that 'Kung Fu makes you horny!'. I do wonder why Jocks all the chicks in the first place.

I don't like taking alcohol (like taking rumcake), I grew up trying to make people laugh and I failed the same way people enjoyed taking and using the drink to crack a joke.

Laugh at yourself, if you know what you doing is wrong, LAUGH and forgive yourself! I used to take the piss out of myself, I admit it's crazy but it works. Knowing how to use 'irony' is the best way out!
 
W

window

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Sep 25, 2007
Messages
472
Reaction score
7
one of my favourite sayings is... Alcohol will lower your resolve...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

T

The Bad Ass Canadian

Master Don Juan
Joined
Feb 15, 2003
Messages
1,652
Reaction score
20
Location
CAN-NUH-DUH
Alcohol can do all sorts of things. It is a depressant and some people are affected by it in more severe ways than others. I used to be able to drink heavy and just go out and have a great time ansd be fine the next day. Now, I do tend to fall into the category of "poor me" from time to time, for no apparrent reason. Hangovers are filled with depressive/negative thoughts so it's just not worth it.

I try and have a couple of beers, and that's it. Regular heavy drinking doesnt work for me, anymore.

You might want to research why alcoholic drinks are often called spirits. You may find some answers as to why it affects you differently, every time.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

Read more...

You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top