"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Alcohol and working out

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Hey all,
I don't have a drinking problem, but every weekend I like to let loose and drink, alot.... I know Alcohol has no real nutritional value but will it have an effect on me bulking? I mean I have problems gaining weight anyway so a few extra calories won't hurt. But does drinking booze stuff up the way protein is used or something? Should I stop drinking completely or what? Are all serious bodybuilders tee totalers? Thanks fellas.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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If your serious about Bodybuilding and eventually start taking other supplements, Alcohol is not recommended because it's bad on the liver.

But if you just want to get drunk every weekend, I don't see anything wrong with that, as long as it's not affecting your training and workouts.

And you said your bulking, so as long as your eating relatively healthy and training, you should be ok.

But if you start to CUT, stay away from alcohol.
 

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Yeah...there are studies that show alcohol inhibits muscle growth/recovery.

But you know what? I have 2 beers a night after I work out and get slammed every once in a while. It really hasn't hurt me. Maybe I could be bigger if I didn't drink. I don't know.

Try holding off drinking for a month and see if you make any noticable gains. If not, go back to drinking. That would be an interesting experiment.

Personally, I'd rather have a couple of beers and enjoy myself than gain a few pounds of muscle. Actually, I'm as big as I really care to be...

The few extra calories will hurt if you are trying to rip down. I can tell a difference in my abs if I go out drinking on a saturday night. But, a little extra cardio and tons of water solves that problem...

All things in moderation...
 

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I started a thread called "alcohol is a biatch if u wanna gain weight" or something ;-)...Ive made the experience that drinking definetly hurts my muscle gains. It has not just an indirect effect (as in having a hang over and thus no energy) but it has also bad effects on your muscles directly. it reduces your testosterone leveles for example (I know this sounds like its not that important but drinking alcohol really reduced my gains). I like to enjoy myself too though, so if I go out 2 times on the weekend I just get a little tipsy and if I go out once I might get kinda drunk ;-) Im not staying away from it completely but drink in moderation..and reducing my alcohol consumption has definetly helped me.

For example there was a time (after I graduated) of about 4 months when I got pretty drunk like 3 days a week and I wasnt able to increase my lifts at all during this time. Then I slowed down on drinking..drinkin in moderation like 1 or 2 times a week (and not getting hammered) and all of a sudden my lifts started to go up again. On the other hand theres gonna be 3 hot parties from friday to monday where I definetly have to go, which kinda bothers me cause I know this will most likely mean that I wont be able to up my lifts during that time :( So Im just not gonna drink on the following weekend (= almost 2 weeks of not drinking) and concentrate on getting my lifts up, and its gonna be aight ;-).

Basically I would say only drink when ure going to a party or something (give up the beers ure drinking during the week while ure in front of the TV ;-)), try to not get hammered, except for once in a while if u want to and only drink as much as u need to party dont drink for the sake of doing it. If ure not trainign to become a professional bodybuilder and your life doesnt revolve around bodybuilding but u just wanna get strong and have a nice physique thatll attract the ladies, I think youll be fine with drinking in moderation if your workout / nutrition is right.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Alcohol lowers testosterone levels, will dehydrate you, and will cut into your sleep (I don't mean in time, although it will do that also, I mean you don't sleep as deeply after you've been drinking). So you're feminizing yourself while at the same time depriving your body of the time and substance it needs to build muscles. In other words, alcohol is not good to combine with serious lifting. That doesn't mean it's pointless to lift if you drink, but moderation is key if you're going to get the gains you want.

I recommend no more than 8 drinks per day. You'll notice great improvements in your lifts AND in your ability to drive to the gym.
 

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Dam! 8 drinks a day?

That's not moderation in my book. I'd be toasted all the time...

Or do you mean, no more than 8 drinks in one sitting? Like on a saturday night.
 
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They actually say that a male should not consume more then 4 standard drinks per a day. Back in my depression days I used to pound back 12-16 standard drinks everyday, strangely though, I didn't get a beer gut, thank god.
 

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Originally posted by Reto
Dam! 8 drinks a day?

That's not moderation in my book. I'd be toasted all the time...

Or do you mean, no more than 8 drinks in one sitting? Like on a saturday night.
That part was a joke. I never have more than 4 drinks in a day, and rarely drink more than 2x per week.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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alcohol basically destroys much of the work you would accomplish by lifting. its been proven on the cellular level.
 
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