"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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AJ-47's Journal: Blue Pill-to-Red Pill.

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What's good guys, I was reading around on this site and I saw a bunch of other people's transformations and decided to write down my own pitiful adventures and seek advice from all you studs out there. I'm not a complete newbie at this. I learned about this like 3 years ago from a friend of mine that got personal training from Style and Mystery themselves. At the time i was in a relationship so i didn't see a need for it but i haven't dated anyone for far too long. I'm frustrated for not being able to converse with female as i would like to because i used to be able to talk to and befriend anyone back in middle school. I wanna get back on that saddle and improve to the point where getting the female is my choice and not theirs.

A little about me: I'm 17, a junior, black, and semi athletic. I play football and soccer nd was thinking about doing track this year. I'm kinda buff and all my friends say i look like a drill sergeant. I'm trying to slim down and get a more ufc fighter type body. I'm about to start doing Insanity, already have the videos. I'm assoiciated with the black crowd so people think im ghetto but i try my best in school. I have a 3.5 gpa and college scholarships that pay for my tuition.

Goals (female-wise): I know that practice is the one and only way to get better at gaming so i plan on practicing my ass off for the rest of the school year. I going to be keeping you guys updated cuz i really want your feedback and constructive criticism.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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March 7:

So today i decided to get back in the water. I was planning to talk to this hb8-8.5 in my spanish 3 class but she wasn't here today. that **** actually pissed me off cuz i been tryna talk to her for a while now. The only reason im kinda nervous wit her is cuz she already shot down two of my friends. One of em managed to get her #, the other didnt even get a chance hahah.

So anyway, during 6th period, History, i got a conversation with this chick sitting next to me, hb6.5. she could be an hb7 if her gums didnt show so much when she smiles. anyway i tapped her on the elbow nd asked her if she had an iphone 5 charger cuz i left mine at home.

Me: "hey, u got a charger for this type of phone?"
(i show her the charging port on my fone. She doesn't even look at it, she is looking directly into my eye sockets the whole time while 3/4 smiling. so now im kinda confused cuz idk if she's smiling just to be polite or if she's interested in what im saying)

her: "No sorry, i dont even have an iphone."
me:"what kinda phone u got?"
-she pulls out her phone and shows it to me
me:"is that a blackberry"
her:"lol not its a blah blah blah"
me:"hahah if we were in math "M" would've said it was a cricket"
her: haha yeah he always says that"
me (noticing her sweater): "are u on jv or varsity?"
her:"what?"
me: "ur sweater, u play soccer right?"
her:"this is from a while ago"
-the convo continues like this for about a min or 2 before my friend sitting behind me start flicking my neck which distracts me from the convo. The convo ends cuz im busy trying to get my friend to stop and her friend comes over to talk to her.
BTW: i do not like this girl. She's just the first girl i was able to start practicing on today.
 
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Talk to girls outside of school. Read Mindgamez's journal.

Approaching randoms is SO much better for learning than anyone in your classes.
 
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