"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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AJ-47's Journal: Blue Pill-to-Red Pill.

AJ-47

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What's good guys, I was reading around on this site and I saw a bunch of other people's transformations and decided to write down my own pitiful adventures and seek advice from all you studs out there. I'm not a complete newbie at this. I learned about this like 3 years ago from a friend of mine that got personal training from Style and Mystery themselves. At the time i was in a relationship so i didn't see a need for it but i haven't dated anyone for far too long. I'm frustrated for not being able to converse with female as i would like to because i used to be able to talk to and befriend anyone back in middle school. I wanna get back on that saddle and improve to the point where getting the female is my choice and not theirs.

A little about me: I'm 17, a junior, black, and semi athletic. I play football and soccer nd was thinking about doing track this year. I'm kinda buff and all my friends say i look like a drill sergeant. I'm trying to slim down and get a more ufc fighter type body. I'm about to start doing Insanity, already have the videos. I'm assoiciated with the black crowd so people think im ghetto but i try my best in school. I have a 3.5 gpa and college scholarships that pay for my tuition.

Goals (female-wise): I know that practice is the one and only way to get better at gaming so i plan on practicing my ass off for the rest of the school year. I going to be keeping you guys updated cuz i really want your feedback and constructive criticism.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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March 7:

So today i decided to get back in the water. I was planning to talk to this hb8-8.5 in my spanish 3 class but she wasn't here today. that **** actually pissed me off cuz i been tryna talk to her for a while now. The only reason im kinda nervous wit her is cuz she already shot down two of my friends. One of em managed to get her #, the other didnt even get a chance hahah.

So anyway, during 6th period, History, i got a conversation with this chick sitting next to me, hb6.5. she could be an hb7 if her gums didnt show so much when she smiles. anyway i tapped her on the elbow nd asked her if she had an iphone 5 charger cuz i left mine at home.

Me: "hey, u got a charger for this type of phone?"
(i show her the charging port on my fone. She doesn't even look at it, she is looking directly into my eye sockets the whole time while 3/4 smiling. so now im kinda confused cuz idk if she's smiling just to be polite or if she's interested in what im saying)

her: "No sorry, i dont even have an iphone."
me:"what kinda phone u got?"
-she pulls out her phone and shows it to me
me:"is that a blackberry"
her:"lol not its a blah blah blah"
me:"hahah if we were in math "M" would've said it was a cricket"
her: haha yeah he always says that"
me (noticing her sweater): "are u on jv or varsity?"
her:"what?"
me: "ur sweater, u play soccer right?"
her:"this is from a while ago"
-the convo continues like this for about a min or 2 before my friend sitting behind me start flicking my neck which distracts me from the convo. The convo ends cuz im busy trying to get my friend to stop and her friend comes over to talk to her.
BTW: i do not like this girl. She's just the first girl i was able to start practicing on today.
 

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Talk to girls outside of school. Read Mindgamez's journal.

Approaching randoms is SO much better for learning than anyone in your classes.
 
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