"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Ain't got no car

muffinman8400

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What are you supposed to do if you don't have access to an automobile to drive your girlfriend around in? When you're making plans, do you just say "Uh . . . you got a car" and if they say "Uh . . . no" what are you going to do? How unmanly to have her drive you around, much less being dropped off by your parents. What are you supposed to do?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Patrick124

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have her meet u where ever u go.
or have ehr drive if she has a license. I've had girls drive me before. thye odn't seem to mind at all as long as u got game.
girls dont realyl give 2 sh!ts abotu HOW u get there. they care mroe abotu the fact that you took time out of your busy schedule to see them, and they're priviledges.
 

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This has been my biggest issue!
(truthfully, I don't know why you would have a problem having her drive you around. Get over your ego brother. Use the situation to your advantage. start up a joke that she's your sugga momma.

I used to have a relationship with a girl like that, and it was so much fun, and she was so sexy... Ah, good times. She moved though, bummer.)

Anyway, back on topic. In my town, everyone lives far away from eachother, and there arent many cool places to go, and I can never seem to find a ride. Just keep things cool at school. You interact with people for 6-8 hours a day over there. I always think... isn't that enough?

When me and you DO get cars, (and the money to upkeep them,) our games will be at newer levels. Take this time as great practice. You'll feel akward and fustrated sometimes... but I have a theory. .....

It's going to pay off BIG TIME in the future.

Hope this comforted you, it did me. Peace out.
 

Adone

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Who cares, I'm almost 19 and I don't really need to get a license. I already have a car, so I'm probably going to study for my license, but, again, I don't really need it.

You don't have to give your girlfriend/date rides somewhere, you're not her fùcking chauffer. I usually tell her "We'll see downtown" and get there by bus/walking. What's the problem with that?
 
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