"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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aim.. then leave

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foomee

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ok.. well last friday i got drunk and me and this girl madeout. we've liked eachother for sometime, but never really talked much. now i'm heading to the snow tomorrow and i'm thinking of aiming her a message on AIM saying "hey, this is james". but like, she doesn't know my aim... i don't think. so i want to aim her, then leave to the snow a few mins after that so she won't have time to respond back. i'll put my away message saying "gonnee in tahoe, call cell (123-4567)" and so maybe she'll be all happy i aimed her, and she'll end up being the one to call me. so yeah.. i dunno.. would that work?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Wow dude, stop thinking. If she's interested she'll call you.
 
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i met this girl a few days ago, just chatted it up, the next day she wanted a date cuz she said i seem like a fun guy to be with. i told her i gotta see if im free or not.

so 3 days later( today) i called her ONCE.. to let her know that i can come but she didnt pick up cuz she was at work. so i left it at that.. she called once two hours later and i was busy at the moment so i didnt pick up.. then she called two more times after that

so let them come to you, thinking too much about her will make u a AFC and will F you up..

why do u have ur mind on her? buddy ur single u should be thinking about how to pick up other women.. how do u know things would work out between the two of you? you cant predict the future so while your at it.. go expoler!
 
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