"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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warrior1

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Is there a program that works to see who clicks on your profile/away message without you putting a link for them to click on? I want to know if any buddies of mine ever check my buddy info. I do not want them to see the message ppl who viewed my profile. Yea, i know, i am so curious.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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AOL only allows certain codes in AIM profiles. As such, it is impossible for people clicking only on your profile to be tracked without clicking a link within your profile. You can be creative and choose a title for the link, such as "Me at my most recent competitive weightlifting event in a leotard" or some other crap... if a girl is straight, odds are she'll click and you'll know who saw it.

From some quick research, you can check out sites like this:

http://www.trackmyprofile.com
 

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ok i just did it. But when i checked out my profile and clicked on link it got me to that page where it says I visited my profile. Can;t i just direct them to say google.com but know they clicked it and they dont?
 

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i want to know which of the ppl in my buddy list views my profile. I clicked on my friend profile and it showed me saying i saw his profile and i wanted to know how he did that. What stalking are u talking about?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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yeah it can be done
you can have a link to your website which will record their sn then forward them to whatever site you want. there used to be sites which allowed for this. you can always set it up yourself
 

warrior1

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yea i know about the link. I have friends that put links in their profiles but their youtube links. Could they be doing this through youtube?
 
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