"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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oElS

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Ok, what do you do when a girl finds out that you have blocked her on aim. I mean you dont dislike the girl, but you just rather not talk to her online. what do you tell her when she ims u with another sn.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Vincent

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Who cares.

Tell her if she wants to talk to you, she should call you. Duh!

Or if all else fails, lie. (Sibling did it, she blocked you, etc etc)

I'm not a master at aim (and am proud of that), but obviously you just don't want to talk to her, so don't explain your actions
 

Jerky Boi

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I really wouldn't care about it. If you think you'll end up talking to this girl, just tell her you don't know how that happened. Maybe someone else was on your sn or something. But if you're intending on not talking to her, tell her the truth :D
 

check_mate_kid_uk

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just tell her she was annoying you a bit the other day so you didnt want to speak to her, but shes ok now so you dnt mind talking
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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kevbo

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Originally posted by Vincent
Tell her if she wants to talk to you, she should call you. Duh!
this sounds like the best one here. why sit there making up excuses?
 

jonny football hero

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Well, i imagine you blocked her for a reason, so block her again. What i usually do is start huge arguments that result in her going " WELL **** OFF THEN". Jobs a gooden.
 

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Say your computer is broken or say she blocked you. Then accuse her of it in a playful way of course then just keep going. You could gain some attraction points there.
 

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Tell her if she's worth your time, then you would have talked to her. Tell her she obviously isn't, and to quit wasting your time. Prepare to be *****ed out. Rinse and repeat.
 

LikRetsam

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What the hell is wrong with you people and making excuses? Where the hell are your balls?

You don't want to chat with her on aim, let her know. PERIOD.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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