"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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oElS

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Ok, what do you do when a girl finds out that you have blocked her on aim. I mean you dont dislike the girl, but you just rather not talk to her online. what do you tell her when she ims u with another sn.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Vincent

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Who cares.

Tell her if she wants to talk to you, she should call you. Duh!

Or if all else fails, lie. (Sibling did it, she blocked you, etc etc)

I'm not a master at aim (and am proud of that), but obviously you just don't want to talk to her, so don't explain your actions
 

Jerky Boi

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I really wouldn't care about it. If you think you'll end up talking to this girl, just tell her you don't know how that happened. Maybe someone else was on your sn or something. But if you're intending on not talking to her, tell her the truth :D
 

check_mate_kid_uk

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just tell her she was annoying you a bit the other day so you didnt want to speak to her, but shes ok now so you dnt mind talking
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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kevbo

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Originally posted by Vincent
Tell her if she wants to talk to you, she should call you. Duh!
this sounds like the best one here. why sit there making up excuses?
 

jonny football hero

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Well, i imagine you blocked her for a reason, so block her again. What i usually do is start huge arguments that result in her going " WELL **** OFF THEN". Jobs a gooden.
 

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Say your computer is broken or say she blocked you. Then accuse her of it in a playful way of course then just keep going. You could gain some attraction points there.
 

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Tell her if she's worth your time, then you would have talked to her. Tell her she obviously isn't, and to quit wasting your time. Prepare to be *****ed out. Rinse and repeat.
 

LikRetsam

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What the hell is wrong with you people and making excuses? Where the hell are your balls?

You don't want to chat with her on aim, let her know. PERIOD.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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