"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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AIM FR: No number...chance?

sandman6991

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I think I did a great job at the end of this conversation with this girl...enough to close the deal with any other chick and have a shot at a date, or dates...but this girl talked about one dude earlier...I know this may be long, but read this...and give me some advice about the situation...because of this other dude...do I have any real shot at getting this girl?

Her: i worked with him all summer and i had a crush on him since the moment i met him, but i never thought anything of it. then after i came back from the beach and had this other boyfriend i didnt really tell anyone. plus i also had another boyfriend in knox. gosh this sounds awful..
Her: but anyway.
Her: me and my knox boyfriend broke up
Her: i was still dating my beach guy
Her: then we grew apart
Her: and the guy i worked with asked me out
Her: he mever knew about the other guys tho
Her: but we started dating
Her: and we really liked each other
Her: like he had liked me since he had met me, we spent a lot of time together
Her: then he got busy with school
Her: he goes to UT
Her: so i didnt see him for 2 weeks
Her: then i spent the night with him
Her: and it was the perfect night
Her: and we were really happy
Her: and i thought this was like gonna be the beginning and we were gonna be together
Her: and then he slowly stopped calling, stpped texting, started saying he was really busy
Her: i still talk to him every once in awhile and he says hes gonna call soon..
Her: he's just really busy.
Her: i'm still holding out for him
Her: but like i fell for him
Her: and the way he talked, i thought he had fallen for me
Her: i guess i was wrong.. he doesnt ever call, or text.

And after this...I was pretty worried, but I kept my head up, and kept doing my best...and at the end, I definately think I made some progress..the question is..is this all in vain?

Her: you've kept me on here til 12
Her: i'm pissed
Her: haha i ened sleep!
Me: god...im a bastard....ya know that?
Me: what are you gonna do about it
Me: :D
Her: get off the computer and go to bed
Me: i guess that'll keep me in line
Her: probably
Me: i'll call you and wake you up at 5 in the morning...
Me: just so you dont get any sleep
Her: good thing you know my number then
Me: yeah...did i forget to ask for that or something?
Her: no you did. i just wouldn't give it to you
Me: i think you judged me too soon
Her: i didn't judge.
Her: i just didn't know if i could trust you
Me: i was just kidding with you
Me: but trustworthy...im second only to b-eaver cleaver
Her:hahahaha nice example.
Me: and actually...he only beat me because he lied about it
Me: so if you want to get technical...he cheated in order to be more trustworthy
Me: so that makes me the most trustworthy person by default
Her: haha you're pretty cool
Her: i cant think of one person i know who would know who b-eaver cleaver is
Me: that show is pretty much the sh!t
Me: i have a friend who is the second coming of gilbert
Her: haha me and my mom used to watch it all the time when i was little. and i loved gilbert.
Me: that's crazy...i used to watch it with my mom all the time when i was little
Me:TV land is the BEST!!!!!!!!
Her: well see i didnt have tv land
Me: where'd you watch it then
Her: this was back when it came on every weekday at noon
Me: ohh
Her: we never had cable
Her: it would be on nbc at noon
Me: how old were you?
Her: young
Her: haha im not really sure
Her: probably around 10 actually
Her: maybe 8?
Me: well thanks...i feel like a fag now...i used to watch it with her when i was like 13
Her: haha well that's cute too
Me: haha no wonder i remember it so well
Her: haha well i continued watching it years after
Her: so dont worry
Her: and plus it's cool
Me: it IS cool!
Me: i wish i got milk and cookies and all that jazz
Her: for real.
Her: dude
Her:i'm signing off
Her: stop talking to me
Her:its 1210!
Her: its so late!
Her: im so tired
Her: i played soccer today
Me: hold your horses
Her: and i ahve to again tomorrow
Me: i played football
Me: i'll shut the living hell up
Me: if i can get your number and not call you at 5 in the morning
Me: haha
Her:haha ill wait a day to give you my number
Her: just since you said that
Her: ;)
Her: good night
Me: night!
Me: i hope you wake up at 5!
Her:and i hope you die in your sleep
Her: have a lovely night
Me: well thanks...you're so sweet!
Me: see ya tomorrow sugar
Her: hahah peace kid
Me: k...im out...young lad
Her: very funny
Her: good day.
She signed off at 12:15:14 AM.

I know that was long...but I'm so confused right now...and I hope this girl doesn't screw me over just because of some other dude.
 

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your retarded

dont waste time online

if she doesnt give you her # right away, you block her and move on to the other 10 girls you're gaming

if you aren't gaming 10 other girls, then your messed up and not in player-mode yet
 

sandman6991

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Color me not in player mode...if I had 10 other girls to game, I'd be a rather happy dude.
 
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