Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7FHJ...at=&Board=BBMedia&Number=8377033&page=2&view=

yes she is doing this for the effects of tv. yes its a game.

but 20 years ago a woman wouldn't have spoken this way no matter what the circumstances where.

and there are more women who are like this in real life than many of us would suspect. its somehow become acceptable to many women to act like low life thugs.

i also love how she talks about womens rights - completely blind to the irony that her behavior is about the greatest affront to the efforts of previous generations. the women's rights movement was not intented to free up women to behave like wh*res - and yet that is what so many of them seem to think was the point of it.

whats amazing is that chics like this smile and jiggle their boobs and there are endless AFCs lined up to take their sh*t for a taste of the (likely) disease riden p*ssy.

anyway, i thought this was a rare look at what lies beneath the 'sugar and spice' exterior of some women and how guys need to be very careful about falling for a womans exterior and thinking they know who she is.

like i say, while a lot of this is probably for dramatic effect for tv, women 20-40 years ago would NEVER have behaved like this for any reason.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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oh and notice how in the beginning the two women observing this fight just sit there with a smile on their face.

even the women who don't sink to such behavior still find it entertaining.

and all of these women consider themselves to be 'high quality' women - and b*tch about how they can't find a good man and how men don't treat them right.

hahaha. all i can say is that the meaning of hell would be to marry one of these hos.
 

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Yikes! This must be Canadian they are using "bad words".

I know this was two chicks fighting, but if it were me, and for some reason I had gotten to the point where I hadn't seen this coming, after about ten seconds I'd probably say "STFU".

Then if she kept going if it were my place I'd kick her out, her place I'd leave.

But I think this is considered normal and a guy would love to turn the bytch into a nice little girl. Not worth it.
 

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the women's rights movement was not intented to free up women to behave like wh*res - and yet that is what so many of them seem to think was the point of it.
Actually joekker the women's right movement really was about women wanting to behave as wh0res and to make a mad dash for the cash. Some of the poineers and supporters were married well to do women, basically women that have everything and are still discontent. And women are still discontent and complainers.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I don't know what is more disgusting, this chick's behavior, or the fact that none of the docile men around her put her in her place. Bunch of submissive little fence-sitters just nod and agree with whatever the person with a vagina says.

UGH!
 

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I guess you gotta be "the man" to weed these obnoxious moronic women out of your dating pool.

I think some guys would be into those kind of women, but I guess for me and others in this thread they are horrible nags you would avoid.
 

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Señor Fingers said:
I don't know what is more disgusting, this chick's behavior, or the fact that none of the docile men around her put her in her place. Bunch of submissive little fence-sitters just nod and agree with whatever the person with a vagina says.

UGH!
Well, keep in mind that each male is not one personality or even a couple but perhaps a dozen. A couple of those male personalities would not mind being the submissive one in a couple. And just because you're submissive does not mean you are inferior or weak.
 

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just because you're submissive does not mean you are inferior or weak.
It's not the submissive part that irks me as much as the fence-sitter part. You just know if they were with the other chick, they'd be agreeing with her POV.

Maybe I just have low tolerance for the spineless wimps who can't think for themselves.
 

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Señor Fingers said:
It's not the submissive part that irks me as much as the fence-sitter part. You just know if they were with the other chick, they'd be agreeing with her POV.

Maybe I just have low tolerance for the spineless wimps who can't think for themselves.
I agree but with the current state of affairs is it in an individual guys interest or to his benefit to go around calling women out on their behavior? Really the only guy that could get away with this is the most attractive and desired male in the group, and that's iffy. Half the brainwashed guys would side against him, and probably most of the other half of the men would side against him out of jealousy and to try to get in good with the girl(s), and we all know how women stick together like glue against men. Otherwise he'd just get himself socially blacklisted.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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LOL, fingz just laid the smack down on some symps.

In anycase yeah totally disgusting whats going into that blonde chicks mouth as well as whats coming out of it.
 

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KontrollerX said:
totally disgusting whats going into that blonde chicks mouth as well as whats coming out of it.
Ha ha. If she was so confident with what she was saying why stuff herself with comfort food.
 

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keto, thats pretty weak. You'd advise capitulation? Lol
No I'm saying so many men sold out and capitulated, that one guy taking a stand would be sacrifice and wouldn't change anything anyway. In a relationship that's a different story, you have to have guidlines of what you accept and don't accept set. Most guys don't even do this. But if anyone doesn't agree and wants to go around and chastise women, let me know how that works out for you.
 

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Señor Fingers said:
I don't know what is more disgusting, this chick's behavior, or the fact that none of the docile men around her put her in her place. Bunch of submissive little fence-sitters just nod and agree with whatever the person with a vagina says.
There were no men sitting in the room just boys.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I love feminism. Liberated women to wear less, show more skin, bend over and take any style our depraved minds can imagine.

There some draw backs. Bad mouthing and cat fights. Hmm...small price to pay for spread legs.

Doesn't phase me a bit as long as it doesn't get into my personal space.
 

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ketostix said:
No I'm saying so many men sold out and capitulated, that one guy taking a stand would be sacrifice and wouldn't change anything anyway. In a relationship that's a different story, you have to have guidlines of what you accept and don't accept set. Most guys don't even do this. But if anyone doesn't agree and wants to go around and chastise women, let me know how that works out for you.
If your verbal judo is awesome enough you can actually get your point across to them and 'win'. Of course, once the woman you've 'won' against realizes you'll call her on her sh!t she'll say something like "you make me feel guilty" and then leave.

Women would rather avoid the truth of the monster in the mirror than face up to facts and better themselves.

Maybe I'll try dating one of those 'modesty girls' next.
 

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Señor Fingers said:
I don't know what is more disgusting, this chick's behavior, or the fact that none of the docile men around her put her in her place. Bunch of submissive little fence-sitters just nod and agree with whatever the person with a vagina says.

UGH!
Fvck that man. I would just get the hell out of that girl's away and wouldn't say anything to her, unless of course she was speaking to me.

That girl is ragging so hard that she is lucky she wasn't attacked by bears or wild animals. I'm sure those things could pick up on the scent.

That is one of my worst nightmares, an enraged crazy chick who is on her period and shoveling ice cream into her mouth.
 

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ketostix said:
No I'm saying so many men sold out and capitulated, that one guy taking a stand would be sacrifice and wouldn't change anything anyway. In a relationship that's a different story, you have to have guidlines of what you accept and don't accept set. Most guys don't even do this. But if anyone doesn't agree and wants to go around and chastise women, let me know how that works out for you.
I agree brother.

Remember, I was in a situation not long ago where I wanted to lay into a chick, but I held myself back because I knew it wouldn't accomplish a damn thing.

It's the same with a chick who flakes or WHATEVER. unless she's your g/f, and sometime even IF she is your g/f, the best thing to do is blow it off. Words will rarely get you anywhere with women, unless it's something she WANTS to hear.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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